awww...why would you never see her again???
why do you think you wont see her? and she wont come to the wedding? Why is she moving? I'm sorry you're sad
Posted by evewedsjc
awww...why would you never see her again???
Posted by NickandTara426
because that is how she is. it's a long story. my sister is the kind of person that only calls when she needs something otherwise you don't hear from her. now that she is 3,000 miles away i have my doubts that she'll call.
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by evewedsjc
awww...why would you never see her again???
because that is how she is. it's a long story. my sister is the kind of person that only calls when she needs something otherwise you don't hear from her. now that she is 3,000 miles away i have my doubts that she'll call.
she is moving with her boyfriend 'because she wants to travel' she has NEVER been there before and she thinks that it's 100x better there than here(Long Island). being that she's never traveled before she can't really say that it's better. she just has no concept of reality. she is living in a house with someone she has never met before and she's never seen the house.
Oh no! I'm so sorry. My sister lives in NC and we used to fight a lot when she lived here but absence really makes the heart grow fonder! I miss her so much but she visits often. Hopefully you'll get closer through the separation.
Posted by NickandTara426
she is moving with her boyfriend 'because she wants to travel' she has NEVER been there before and she thinks that it's 100x better there than here(Long Island). being that she's never traveled before she can't really say that it's better. she just has no concept of reality. she is living in a house with someone she has never met before and she's never seen the house.
Posted by VickiR510
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by evewedsjc
awww...why would you never see her again???
because that is how she is. it's a long story. my sister is the kind of person that only calls when she needs something otherwise you don't hear from her. now that she is 3,000 miles away i have my doubts that she'll call.
Why would your sister decline MOH?? I cant believe that! I understand that you are upset but your sister may be a bit on the selfish side if she cant call u just to say whats up & how r u??? U should talk with her about this. Im sorry because you really want to have a goodrelationship & she is off in her world. Maybe when she gets older you will have this type of relationship u want. Maybe when she gets married she will understand what this all means to u!
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by evewedsjc
awww...why would you never see her again???
because that is how she is. it's a long story. my sister is the kind of person that only calls when she needs something otherwise you don't hear from her. now that she is 3,000 miles away i have my doubts that she'll call.
Posted by Future Pepper
Posted by NickandTara426
she is moving with her boyfriend 'because she wants to travel' she has NEVER been there before and she thinks that it's 100x better there than here(Long Island). being that she's never traveled before she can't really say that it's better. she just has no concept of reality. she is living in a house with someone she has never met before and she's never seen the house.
Sounds to me like she's in lala-land. Give her a few years to make some mistakes and she'll realize how important family is.
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by Future Pepper
Posted by NickandTara426
she is moving with her boyfriend 'because she wants to travel' she has NEVER been there before and she thinks that it's 100x better there than here(Long Island). being that she's never traveled before she can't really say that it's better. she just has no concept of reality. she is living in a house with someone she has never met before and she's never seen the house.
Sounds to me like she's in lala-land. Give her a few years to make some mistakes and she'll realize how important family is.
she really is in lala land and she told us(my parents and myself) that there is nothing here for her![]()
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Posted by Future Mrs Roo
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by Future Pepper
Posted by NickandTara426
she is moving with her boyfriend 'because she wants to travel' she has NEVER been there before and she thinks that it's 100x better there than here(Long Island). being that she's never traveled before she can't really say that it's better. she just has no concept of reality. she is living in a house with someone she has never met before and she's never seen the house.
Sounds to me like she's in lala-land. Give her a few years to make some mistakes and she'll realize how important family is.
she really is in lala land and she told us(my parents and myself) that there is nothing here for her![]()
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how old is she? maybe its an maturity issue?
Sorry for crashing, but it just sounds like she going through a phase. Shes younger and still in the world revolves around me way of thinking. Usually girls go through that in their late teens so maybe shell be coming around soon. I wouldnt worry about her moving to Cali, i have a feeling shell be back. Ive known like 10 people who moved off the island at that age and pretty much all of them came back within a year.
is she really not going to your wedding?
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Posted by VickiR510
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by evewedsjc
awww...why would you never see her again???
because that is how she is. it's a long story. my sister is the kind of person that only calls when she needs something otherwise you don't hear from her. now that she is 3,000 miles away i have my doubts that she'll call.
Why would your sister decline MOH?? I cant believe that! I understand that you are upset but your sister may be a bit on the selfish side if she cant call u just to say whats up & how r u??? U should talk with her about this. Im sorry because you really want to have a goodrelationship & she is off in her world. Maybe when she gets older you will have this type of relationship u want. Maybe when she gets married she will understand what this all means to u!
i've tried explaining this to her and she told me that she's never getting married. that she's not into the whole 'wedding' thing. whatever that means. i want to havea good relationship with her because i have always had a close relationship with her. but over the past 2-3 years it hasn't been that way.
It wouldn't surprise me if she didn't show up. She hasn't even asked how wedding plans are going. she did tell me that it bothered her that everyone is talking about me getting married and no on is talking about her moving. Maybe she's upset because I'm younger and I'm getting married?
