its NOT over!!!

A for you all

im glad to see things working out!!

remember deep breathing and how much you two really do love each other ... marriage is about finding that balance

stay happy and strong.. things will work out in time.. and so far things are goign good...

congrats~!

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Posted by lyndanoelle

Well ladies, its been fun. I really hope that all your weddings are spectacular.

As for me, after much stress and relationship issues we have called of the engagement.

Im a little torn up but it is for the best.

I wish you all the best, who knows we may work things out but right now im just going to power off the computer, unplug the phone and try and relax.

*******************************UPDATE:******************************************
So, Here is what happened

It was my decision to leave, then my decision to stay.
I had been having really bad mood swings, not sleeping, and always got really angry with him and started a lot of fights.
I could feel my blood pressure start to rise when I knew he was on his way home.

After a long talk with one of my bridesmaids I agreed that it was not fair to either of us to make a decision until we figure out what is going on.

I posted a form a week ago stating that we might be pregnant, well we still dont know. The results were negative but it may have been too soon, or again the lack of . could be due to the medication I started 2 months ago...... stupid medication.

So to my point, I have been waiting for my work raise for 8 months, yes thats right. 8 MONTHS waiting to find out if I may get it or not. I have been speaking with my managers, managers boss and she finally put action into place.

So, I got it (Whoo Hooo) and Now, i feel MUCH better. Im sleeping better, my constant headache went away, Im less grouchy. Still no . but im still hopping its the meds.

I didn't realize how much anxiety and stress i was holding in from that one thing... well it was a big thing to me but wow.

So, we are back together and the wedding is still on. I love him and it was the stress that was killing me, not him.

Thank you SOOOO much for your kind words of encouragement. Your girls rock!

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Wow, that’s great! I hope I’m not being too personal, but what meds? You can FM me the info if you want…I’ve had some experience regarding horrible physical and mental reactions concerning various medications.

on a different level i can totally relate to what went on, that said, it's great that you were able to put the best things ahead of the bad

back to wedding talk!

Glad to hear that it all worked out in the end!!!

yay

im so glad that things are better....stress can def make people crazy...u should have seen me the other night! but im glad the two of u worked things out and are staying together!!!!!!!

So glad it's not over and everything is ok. Stress can really play a big part in your life. Try and relax and enjoy each other.

I'm sorry that you had to go through all that- everything will work out though in the end to what is meant to be.. I'm glad that the wedding is back on and you're sleeping better and also not as grouchy, etc.

aww- that's great news. I'm happy you two were able to work things out!