Its Over!!!!!!

Well in the mail today came all the letters for me to sign to cancel the wedding. His (Mike's) parents did all the paperwork, and they have my wedding planner with all of the information. Mike and I still see each other, he sent me a text message from Florida last night telling me How much he missed me. I cant beleive my mistake, the whole two seconds of it has led to this. I didnt loose tons of money but I lost a man I thought I knew/loved. I know things could be worse and I dont want to waste another second of my life, not smiling, because you cannot get those seconds back. Mike loves me and I know thats the importance, its just a shame
I will look at you all next year with smiles all around, I am soo excited for all of you.

Good luck Kristen

I thought you were just going away with him...last week you posted I thought...what happened..does he want to call off the wedding or his parents! I am confused! Awww, I am so sorry!

I'm so sorry! Is it him or his parents? Don't let them get in the way of you two working things out! I thought you were going to try another counselor?

Just remember everything happens for a reason even though we may not understand it now.
Keep on smiling

Aw, Kristen-

Hang in there...everything happsn for a reason.

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Posted by dplehat

I am sorry you are going through this. It just seems so odd that he says he wants to work things out but everything is being cancelled. I would think he would have given it till the 6.5 months before the wedding before officially cancelling. I hope things work out the way you want them to.

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Its a nightmare, I am confused like you would not beleive!

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

It's probably best to take the stress of a wedding off before trying to work things out. You don't want to get to a point where things still aren't perfect, but you go through the wedding because everything has already been paid for and it's so far along you don't want to back out.

I hate to be a downer, but I've already seen several of my friends and acquaintances get divorced and I'm only 27. It's probably best to get a fresh start, and if it's meant to be it will all work out in the end.

I really think things will work out. Maybe you wont get married in '07 - but you will in '08. Good luck, and you will continue to be in my prayers!

kris

I am so confused why did HIS parents cancel the wedding? This is your wedding not theres. Plus it both of your decisions.
Did Mike want the wedding cancelled?

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Posted by Love4Eva

I really think things will work out. Maybe you wont get married in '07 - but you will in '08. Good luck, and you will continue to be in my prayers!

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I agree!!!

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Posted by rachie

kris

I am so confused why did HIS parents cancel the wedding? This is your wedding not theres. Plus it both of your decisions.
Did Mike want the wedding cancelled?

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Yes they did it for him

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Posted by Love4Eva

I really think things will work out. Maybe you wont get married in '07 - but you will in '08. Good luck, and you will continue to be in my prayers!

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Thank you that really sweet to hear!!!

oh I'm so sorry this happened!!

You need to find out if this is HIM that wants the wedding cancelled...seems like you're getting mixed signals from him.

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Posted by rachie

kris

I am so confused why did HIS parents cancel the wedding? This is your wedding not theres. Plus it both of your decisions.
Did Mike want the wedding cancelled?

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Yes they did it for him

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WHY?

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Posted by rachie

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Posted by kdecamp

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Posted by rachie

kris

I am so confused why did HIS parents cancel the wedding? This is your wedding not theres. Plus it both of your decisions.
Did Mike want the wedding cancelled?

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Yes they did it for him

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WHY?

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