Well in the mail today came all the letters for me to sign to cancel the wedding. His (Mike's) parents did all the paperwork, and they have my wedding planner with all of the information. Mike and I still see each other, he sent me a text message from Florida last night telling me How much he missed me. I cant beleive my mistake, the whole two seconds of it has led to this. I didnt loose tons of money but I lost a man I thought I knew/loved. I know things could be worse and I dont want to waste another second of my life, not smiling, because you cannot get those seconds back. Mike loves me and I know thats the importance, its just a shame I will look at you all next year with smiles all around, I am soo excited for all of you.
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kris
I am so confused why did HIS parents cancel the wedding? This is your wedding not theres. Plus it both of your decisions. Did Mike want the wedding cancelled?
Yes they did it for him
WHY?
OH well have you asked him if this is what he wants? I don't understand and I know you don't either but you need answers this is not fair to you all the mind games with him telling you he misses you.
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Good Luck to You!!
D's Girl
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I am so sorry
I know you have heard it before, everything happens for a reason
Hang in there
happygirl07
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I am so confused here that I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through.
Did Mike know that his parents were cancelling the wedding?
You need lots of answers for your sanity Kristen.
Wishing you all the best.
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I'm so sorry to hear this Kristen! I agree with the other girls, if it is meant to be it will be. Hopefully we'll see you on the '08 boards soon
Kristen, I am so sorry. I hope things work out for you. Try and work things out, you guys can always get married later on if that is what you want to do. Hang in there. Let us know if you need anything.
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Awe Kristen! What a shame! I hope everything works out for the best! Good Luck and stop in when ever you want, we'll miss you! Keep smilin'
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how sad you must be over this! but i'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. perhaps it's just not your time to get married....and you and mike need to really work things out big time, without the stress of planing a wedding on top of it.
this may be a good decision for you--i mean trying to work out your relationship and doing all the wedding stuff could cause things to be just too much. i think it's better you two work it allllll out and are totally committed and sure in your relationship, before a wedding is planned. i know it's hard, and will be sad for you--but if you are meant to be, you two will one day be married, no matter what!
good luck!!!
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I am so sorry to hear that! I know you guys will both get through this and whatever is meant to be will be. I just hope that he is honest with you about all of his feelings. Good luck and maybe we will see you on the '08 boards
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Its a nightmare, I am confused like you would not beleive!
I really do hope that things work how how you want. A friend of mine is going through a similar situation except its from the guys view (and she did something much worse). What we told him is he needs to decide if he can forgive his fw because if he can't its not fair to string her along. I say push for the counseling so you can find out if there is a point to all this torture. I remember reading he told everybody. Make sure you don't let people make you feel like a bad person for what you did. You are just human and everybody make mistakes.
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Kris, I am so sorry to hear and I know you must feel so hurt, but it is very hard right now, but things always do have a way of working themselves out. Hang in there and you will be there someday. Maybe you guys need sometime to work it out, before this big step , Good Luck Kris and all you can do is move forward.:
Shmar
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I'm so sorry Kristen. Good Luck with everything! You'll get through this.
JenNDan07
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I'm so sorry. Hang in there and keep strong!
paulandkenise2007
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I'm sorry to hear that...good luck and take care.
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Kris,
I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. You will get thru. this girl. Be strong, and keep your head up.
Good Luck Honey!!
Q
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I am so sorry, Kristen. I cannot imagine what you feel or what you are going through, but I do know that you have all of our support.
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Awww...I'm so sorry to hear this. If there is anything you need, even just an ear, just always know that the 07 girls are here for you!! Hope you can figure out everything with Mike, whether it's to be married or be friends, and know that no matter what, you are the one you have to focus on and make sure that you are happy in the end. Really talk things out with him...
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I hope all works out for you. I believe that love concurs all. Like a few girls said, you may not get married this year, but you have plenty of time to work on your relationship. Good Luck to you, and what ever the future holds for you as well.
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I'm so sorry that this is happening. Just try to hang in there, even though it seems so hard to do right now, because i really believe that everything happens for a reason. I'm sure everything will work out for you in the long-run. All of this might not make sense now, but one day you'll see that you had to go through this to get to where you're supposed to be. I wish u lots of luck and happiness!
