Hey ladies I havent talked to you in a very long time. I do apologize. Well I got a job which was like and I was happy to get out of the house and work. Thats the main reason why I havent posted! Then FH and I broke up for good. I was totally upset and I still do not know the full reason why. But it's official. But alot of ppl are telling me that he's going to come back after he figures out how it is to be w/o me. But just pray for me
I love you all...and if I wasnt so tired when I got home from work I would post more. I just have to get the hang of this schedule and I will be to post!
Ok Love u ladies and dont feel bad for me you never know what can happen!
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Yeah i forgot to mention, i had a long relationship before...we were together from when i was 16-24 years old, so 8 years...So thats why i said if you need to talk, let me know.
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I know you will get through this and at the end be a better person for it, regardless of what happens in the future you will be a stronger person.
You're in my prayers
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I honestly do thank each and everyone of you are telling me to FM them if I need them because guess what I WILL take you up on ya offer. Some nights I have a relapse and just drive myself nuts. Other days I'm just fine and dandy.
But when we see eachother its a totally different story. He doesnt know how to act...he still answers ppl when they refer to me as his girlfriend. We go to the same church and we have the same mutual friends there they never knew us as individuals only as a couple so it's hard for them to grasp the concept of us not being together.
But I stand strong and I play by the rules whenever we see one another.
And yes this gives me time to focus on myself! Which makes me happy because I never got the chance to EVER! And I get to spend money on ME!! And as much as I want too!
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I Hope everything works out
Princess Cut Bride
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I hope everything works out for the best. If it wasn't meant to be it's better that you are both realizing this now and not after you are married. If it was meant to be you will both find each other again.
You will be in my prayers!
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Posted by Princess Cut Bride
I hope everything works out for the best. If it wasn't meant to be it's better that you are both realizing this now and not after you are married. If it was meant to be you will both find each other again.
You will be in my prayers!
Its not hard to find me...we go to the same church and socialize in the same group of ppl there. It's gonna be hard to lose my lil self. lol
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Posted by Princess Cut Bride
I hope everything works out for the best. If it wasn't meant to be it's better that you are both realizing this now and not after you are married. If it was meant to be you will both find each other again.
You will be in my prayers!
Its not hard to find me...we go to the same church and socialize in the same group of ppl there. It's gonna be hard to lose my lil self. lol
Aww...you're too cute...girl just take it easy...enjoy your 'you' time right now and everything will work out!!! Take care of yourself 1st!!!!!
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Aww Toni! I'm sending and your way. I know it's so cliche but I really do believe that things happen for a reason. Hang in there girl. You know LI-dub is always here for you when you just need a screaming vent!
PS... Congrats on the new job!
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MillerFord742008
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Ok Ladies I need your opinions because my homegirl is making me laugh right now because she is going IRATE!
We make it our business to talk about the break up everyday just to get everything out of our system and the more and more we talk about it the less and less we talk about it as time goes on and it eases our pain (she's going thru a break up also)
So! She is bugging out because she was thinking and realized that everytime I spoke to FH he would ask if I was seeing someone or had a new boyfriend...or how I seem to be so much better with out him.
what is that about because she is cracking me up over here!
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AMGBride2008
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Posted by MillerFord742008
Ok Ladies I need your opinions because my homegirl is making me laugh right now because she is going IRATE!
We make it our business to talk about the break up everyday just to get everything out of our system and the more and more we talk about it the less and less we talk about it as time goes on and it eases our pain (she's going thru a break up also)
So! She is bugging out because she was thinking and realized that everytime I spoke to FH he would ask if I was seeing someone or had a new boyfriend...or how I seem to be so much better with out him.
what is that about because she is cracking me up over here!
You're very lucky to have someone to go thru this with. You girls are too much! Be glad that you're laughing!!!
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Posted by AMGBride2008 You're very lucky to have someone to go thru this with. You girls are too much! Be glad that you're laughing!!!
I have no choice! But to laugh she is soo funny right now.
TheFutureMrsM
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Are you signed up for TWOTY?
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Sorry to hear the news, Toni. It sounds like you're holding up well, considering, and I'm happy to hear that you have friends who are supporting you and being good to you through this. Anytime you need advice, or just a laugh, you know to come right here, though, okay? Best of luck to you.
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toni... im so sorry.... i hope you are holding up ok you have fm.
MillerFord742008
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YES I Will be at TWOTY!!!
blu6385
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fo you ... hope all works out!!
Snowflake08
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you deserve something great, and if that turns out to be him - good, and if not, then something better is in your future!!!
ETA - I am not going to pray for you, you are wonderful - HE needs the prayers!!!
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THAT FACKING SUUUUUUUUUUUUCKS TONI!!!!
I'm really sorry...I don't even know what to say. I just hope you know how much you are worth and i really truly hope everything works out for you. Good luck chicky. You're gonna be fine!
