It's Over

Hey ladies I havent talked to you in a very long time. I do apologize. Well I got a job which was like and I was happy to get out of the house and work. Thats the main reason why I havent posted! Then FH and I broke up for good. I was totally upset and I still do not know the full reason why. But it's official. But alot of ppl are telling me that he's going to come back after he figures out how it is to be w/o me. But just pray for me


I love you all...and if I wasnt so tired when I got home from work I would post more. I just have to get the hang of this schedule and I will be to post!


Ok Love u ladies and dont feel bad for me you never know what can happen!

I am sooo sorry honey!! I'm sure if it is meant to be he will realize what he is missing!!!You deserve someone who is going to realize that and treat you right. We are all here for you You can FM me at any time if you need someone to talk to!

So sorry I hope everything works out and he grows up and comes back to you. Stay strong!

Oh Toni - I'm so sorry to hear that! I'll keep you in my prayers and pray that everything works out for the best for you!!! You deserve that best girl - and he should realize how wonderful you are!!!

I pray that things will work out for you guys!

Toni!!! I'm sorry!!!!

there's tons of hugs!!!!!

Well honestly we had an arguement...and broke up but our break ups are cooling off periods that are only for a few days if that.

Then it just shocked me that he kept saying it was over for real and he's done and blah blah blah...and he's never like that

So I took it and left him alone for good now...and I was hurt but I got over it quick when I realized that better things can be the outcome of this situation. I dunno...I'm really ok about it though

Oh Toni, my heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry. I pray that you have the courage and strength to get through this, it's going to be very difficult. I'm so very sorry Toni. You're such a strong and beautiful person. You deserve someone great.

toni

I'm really sorry. But I'm sending you a ton of prayers and hugs.

you are such a wonderful person - i know that after this hard time you will find what life truly has to offer you!!

if your personality shines through some stupid message board i am positive that those around you should fully appreciate it!!!

anyway, you better come on here more when you get used to your work schedule!!!!

OMG i am sooooo sorry, my heart goes out to you...I wouldn't even have guessed there was a problem. Well you know anytime you need to talk, we are all here for you.

Aww thank you ladies...all I ask for is a couple of prayers I'm sure God or whom ever you pray too(cause I accept all types) that the situation is a learning lesson. But I feel as though its something bigger is going to come out of this for the both of us.

Alot of ppl do not realize the mistakes they have made until the person they may have hurt is gone. And even though ex FH could be a terror sometimes..he really took care of me and loved me to pieces. SO I think he got some bad advice and ended it. I noticed how a lot of ppl would tell him he was to young to get married. so I think he just got nervous...I dunno

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Posted by MillerFord742008

Aww thank you ladies...all I ask for is a couple of prayers I'm sure God or whom ever you pray too(cause I accept all types) that the situation is a learning lesson. But I feel as though its something bigger is going to come out of this for the both of us.

Alot of ppl do not realize the mistakes they have made until the person they may have hurt is gone. And even though ex FH could be a terror sometimes..he really took care of me and loved me to pieces. SO I think he got some bad advice and ended it. I noticed how a lot of ppl would tell him he was to young to get married. so I think he just got nervous...I dunno

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that could very well be it. He let the ignorant people's ideas get to him and freak him out.. i'm sure he'll realize that he needs/wants you in his life. You are definitly in my prayers!

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Posted by MillerFord742008

Aww thank you ladies...all I ask for is a couple of prayers I'm sure God or whom ever you pray too(cause I accept all types) that the situation is a learning lesson. But I feel as though its something bigger is going to come out of this for the both of us.

Alot of ppl do not realize the mistakes they have made until the person they may have hurt is gone. And even though ex FH could be a terror sometimes..he really took care of me and loved me to pieces. SO I think he got some bad advice and ended it. I noticed how a lot of ppl would tell him he was to young to get married. so I think he just got nervous...I dunno

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You will be in all of our prayers. It is very weird how things can turn out, things you never expected...You don't know how it will end up, so take this time to really focus on yourself and the direction you want to go in your life.

If you ever need to talk you can fm me anytime.

Aww I am so sorry it's good that you are doing well though. I know it must be hard. we are all here for you to talk to. God works in mysterious ways. and this can only make you stronger.

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Posted by PoeticJustice

That happened to me with an ex who was five years younger than me and we were together 4years and all of his family kept pressuring him not to get married. We were supposed to moveto LA together, I got into Law School, he got in Art School. When it was time to move, I moved to LA and he did not show up. It was a love TKO for real. But after a year of law school I moved back EAST then GOD brought my FI in my life and ironically,my ex tried to come back after he realized his mistakes but by then I had moved on. God will bring people in and out of your life for a reason. For me I realized that my ex helped me learn to stand totally on my own for a year and I met some great people in LA who I am still friends with to this day.

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BOY OH BOY its a crazy thing...I asked this him if its that easy to walk away from a 3 yr relationship to someone u were marrying just a few weeks ago...and he said yes. I then realized that it wasnt the man I knew talking but someone else...I hate when ppl but into someone elses relationship...now he has to learn the hard way which is sad