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Jr Bridesmaid?

Original post by Neeks

Is 16 too old to be a Jr Bridesmaid?

Edit;

I got the age mixed up. What about 17???
she will turn 17 right before the wedding
Neeks Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC

I don't see anything wrong with that, and just have one GM with 2 BMs
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but what about the dance?? when everyone has a partner and she doesnt?? when i went to my friends wedding(her bridal party was uneven) she just made the 3 people dance together
BellaFiore Posted:

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maybe have her do a reading or take part in the ceremony in some way?
JLWSJC Posted:

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Have a cousin or uncle partner with her just for the dance.. you're going to have that issue regardless whether she's jr bm or BM, if FH doesn't want to add a GM.

Neeks Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC

Have a cousin or uncle partner with her just for the dance.. you're going to have that issue regardless whether she's jr bm or BM, if FH doesn't want to add a GM.




oh yea duhhhh lol W T F im a little slow today excuse me
Im getting Married Posted:

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That only matters if you are doing a dance..We are just doing our 1st dance together then asking everyone to join us

NellieBellie32 Posted:

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i have a cousin that will be 17 and i asked her to be a full bridesmaid.....honestly shes just as tall as me, borrows my clothes and acts just like an adult and will be going to college a few months after my wedding so i didnt' wanna give her the title of 'jr' bridesmaid

ellie424 Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC

I never really understood why there needs to be a distinction. If she's the only questionable one, then why make her a JR? And at what point does that distinction play in?

Just make her a BM and she won't do the big girl things the rest of you do.



ITA. When I was 14 and my sister was 16 we were both regular bridesmaids in my brothers wedding. We just didn't partake in the adult activities.
Neeks Posted:

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Thanks for the help Ladies :)

FutureMrsPanuch Posted:

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i dont think it matters if you call her a Jr or a regular BM.. my friend had a girl drop out of her wedding in October last month so she is considering her 13 year old cousin a BM. and FHs cousin had her 11 year old daughter as her only BM... it just depends on what you want to call her... if you want her to be a JR. Bridesmaid than she will be that.. you can always find a way to incorporate her into your bachelorrette party so she doesnt feel left out.After all it is your day

kshea23 Posted:

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I will have my 3 cousins in my BP.

1 will be 17, the other will be 13 and they will be considered BM.

The younger one will be 11 and will be the JR BM

Obviously they will not be involved in my bachelorette party, but they will be involved with coming with me for my dress and their bm dresses, and the bridal shower.

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