Just curious: who's caused you the most stress with this wedding?
Original post by AlliCatB
I would have said my Mom up until we had issues with FH's two GM counsins. How about you?
poogie
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my fh family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they are crazy but no one is giving up the cash or even offereing
imas98
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I would say my MOH....lately she's been calling me 3 times a day to tell me something about the shower but only half the story because i'm not supposed to know. Why bother telling at all ?!?!?! It's getting annoying !! I can't wait until the shower is over.
iBCraZ131
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My family wins by a LONG SHOT!!! They are making me absolutely crazy and think they have a say in everything!!!!!!!!!
alicia721
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My BM's 2 of them was complaining about not being able to order the dresses the same time as the others and 1 of them dropped out because she felt I wasnt paying her enough attention (Drama Queen)
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WITHOUT a doubt, FILs. I can't wait until this wedding is over so I can officially have NOTHING to do with them ever again.
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FMIL
MellyAngel
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dad and stepmom...sigh
MellyAngel
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also FMIL!
Christys0925
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Def my sister who is my MOH !!! I love her but she is very selfish !!!!!!!!!
lilangel
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My FH's Family yup .... the whole family except his stepfather.
MJDoc12
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MY FATHER!!!!!! DAD-ZILLA D'JOUR!
believe it or not, the person who gave me the MOST stress, headaches, breakdown, and tears was my dad. he was the WORST about EVERYTHING. biitched about the entire wedding process and anything that i did, he didn't like. i wanted to strangle him by the end!
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Posted by Lemons
jeez who do I start with?! It's a tie between FMIL (who seems to think this is HER wedding!) and 2 out of 3 BM's (who seem to think MY wedding should somehow revolve around them!) Out of curiousity, would it look tacky if I dropped them and FH still has all 3 of his GMs and all I have is a MOH???
Absolutely not, I have an uneven party and wouldn't care if he had twice as many GM's, I am now having them walk in 1 by 1.
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Posted by ido07
Myself!! By letting the small things get to me and trying to micro-manage!
I thought I was being laid back about all of this, but lately I have been getting really frustrated with certain aspects of planning....so I am trying to let go and let other people help
Biyatc, you totally stole my answer!!!!!!
Just lil ol me, making things more than they need to be, or should I blme it on hormones, damn hormones!!!!!
dancerandchef
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FH's SIL which is my FSIL.
~dancer~
maureen519
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first it was my original MOH who is now completely out of my life, and now it is my mother.
portjeffbride
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WHO? Well, really no one. Because we decided from the get-go that FH and I would be the ONLY planners, and no one else really had say. (But, that also means the DIY's are REALLY do it YOURSELF... no help from others!) It worked out wonderfully.
The only minor problems arose when we tried to extract addresses from FMIL. It was REALLY slow coming. I mean, 6 addresses arrived AFTER the envelopes were already redurned by the calligrapher. But that was it! It was also a smidge difficult to get my mom to find a dress. She simply hates shopping, and is rather stubborn about it....
overall, no major difficulties...
Now if you ask WHAT caused difficulty.... That is really simple...
PROGRAMS!!!!!!!
gaccrrm
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My FMIL, FBIL and FSIL. We currently aren't speaking with them. If I had my way they wouldn't even be invited, but for my FH sake (who is also mad at them) we are inviting them out of respect even though they do not respect us. I have never met such selfish people.
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Posted by Lemons
jeez who do I start with?! It's a tie between FMIL (who seems to think this is HER wedding!) and 2 out of 3 BM's (who seem to think MY wedding should somehow revolve around them!) Out of curiousity, would it look tacky if I dropped them and FH still has all 3 of his GMs and all I have is a MOH???
I would do whatever makes you happy
AlliCatB
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Posted by maureen519
first it was my original MOH who is now completely out of my life, and now it is my mother.
That is awful!
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Posted by maureen519
first it was my original MOH who is now completely out of my life, and now it is my mother.
That is awful!
yeah it was this whole big thing.... maybe i shouldnt even post this, who knows if she reads this website too like my other psycho friend. but basically i saw her at our e-party in june, and havent seen her since, called like 50 times left alot of messages sent emails, letters everything under the sun, and she never got back to me. totally dropped off the face of the earth. havent spoken to her since november. now my SIL is my MOH and i couldnt be happier.
