just not happy UPDATE =)

it's down to 18 days and I'm soooooooooo aggrivated, frustrated and I just simply feel like I've had enough with all this....i'm crying right now bc I'm not happy anymore i was sooooo happy during this wedding process and i feel like the happiness has been $ucked out of me....I really just want it to be over....between fmil deciding that she has a say in whether there's a kids table at a wedding she didnt open her pockets for and fh adding 2 extra people a week away from the final count(yea u heard me right and then asked y i'm mad)....I can't take this $hit anymore....I'm just sooooooooo drained ....sooooo sorry this is long but i needed to vent bc I feel like I'm going crazy



ETA Thank you sooooooooo much girls because you all got me through a tough night last night and I have to admit I feel soooooo much betterI came home from work and FH told me that he fixed all the final arrangement paperwork, so that I wouldn't have to do it AGAIN because things were changed AGAIN ....FH he knew I snapped yesterday and he knew he had to do something to redeem himself.....and u girls just made me remember that I can't let this crap bother me... thank u again

You're almost there, hang in there!!

awww sweetie! Don't cry dry your eye... it will get better it is almost over...

it's almost here!! let it all out now!!!!

Sweetie:
Take a deep breath. I know how you feel I have been going through it. I cannot get anything done right at this moment. Church is not secure, still no invites, have not booked hm, no limos, and my BP is so not involved with anything right now or there for support for me. But yet everyone has some crap to say. Don't worry. You are almost there dont let people get you down. Think of the real reason you are having this wedding you are marrying your soul mate that is all that matters. If no one else is there but you and FH that is all that matters.

IT will all come together you will see.

Here a big smile to ya.

Cheer up!!!

Just breathe!

And remember this word: NO. If your FH tries to add more people when you've already given your head count: NO! If you FMIL is suddenly sticking her nose in: NO! It's a great word, works in all sorts of situations. Don't get into arguments or explanations at this point. Things are finished, decided, planned. Done. Over. For your sanity, it's too late to make changes (unless you want them, of course!) Seriously, if anyone asks for changes, tell them it's too late, there's nothing you can do, oops, gotta go, time for my final fitting, love ya bye!!

Hang in there!

DONT WORRY! You are NOT alone, I feel the same exact way---I am now 32 days away and I am freaking out...my wedding plannnig is so not fun, the MIL, the $$, the everything and stressful wrok on top of it all!

Just think u are almost there and then you will be on your honeymoon...thats my saving grace.

Hope that helps

thank u soooo much girls....im trying to hang in there by a very thin string....thank u for support bc i sooooooooooooooo NEED it right now

I'm sorry you're so stressed, hun. When these little things start to pile up, remember the big picture...you're marrying the man you love and are going to spend the rest of your life with. When you look back in 5 years, none of this will seem very important. I think it will get better. Hang in there.

You are almost there, and it is normal to feel aggrivated in this stage, just take a deep breath and relax.
After the wedding you will feel like everything is worth it.

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Posted by soontobemrsRG

DONT WORRY! You are NOT alone, I feel the same exact way---I am now 32 days away and I am freaking out...my wedding plannnig is so not fun, the MIL, the $$, the everything and stressful wrok on top of it all!

Just think u are almost there and then you will be on your honeymoon...thats my saving grace.

Hope that helps

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soooooooooo true the honeymoon is what im reallllllllllly looking forward too....sitting and relaxing with a pina colada in hand...thanks for that mental picture

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Posted by Becks526

I'm sorry you're so stressed, hun. When these little things start to pile up, remember the big picture...you're marrying the man you love and are going to spend the rest of your life with. When you look back in 5 years, none of this will seem very important. I think it will get better. Hang in there.

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ur absolutely right thats what really is important and i keep trying to tell myself that and i get up from being knocked down and then something comes around and knocks me down again its like a constant aggravation merry-go-round

I'm sorry you're so stressed!! Your big day will be here sooner than you think and all the b.s. will be forgotten the minute you walk down that aisle!!

sorry please try to take it easy atleast, ur marrying the love of your life!!!! i know like me, you probably want ur day to be perrrrrrrfect, but it will bee... because its just about two people coming together , you and FH! dont let the lil things get in the way

maybe indulge in some good stuff, like a nice massage, day at the spa??

JEN!!!!!!! I'm so sorry to hear all this is happening to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All I can say is that it totally S UCKS!!! But I know you will pull through, in 19 days it will all be over and you will be on your HM and far away from all the nonsense! Hang in there girlie!!! Your wedding day will be amazing!!!! Sorry to hear about your FMIL situation I'm sending you many and

awww i'm sorry sweetie. i always try to look at times like this this way...you have to let the storm pass in order to see the beautiful rainbow. in 10 years from now you won't think about any of these minor things. you'll have wonderful memories of your wedding day and all the days after...your rainbow!

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Posted by MimiMcG

JEN!!!!!!! I'm so sorry to hear all this is happening to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All I can say is that it totally S UCKS!!! But I know you will pull through, in 19 days it will all be over and you will be on your HM and far away from all the nonsense! Hang in there girlie!!! Your wedding day will be amazing!!!! Sorry to hear about your FMIL situation I'm sending you many and

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awwwwwwwwwww mimi!!!!!!!!!! thank u sooooooooo much....it's madness right now but I know that everything is gonna be ok....it's just I have to get through this trash to get to the treasure

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Posted by Jennifer907

awww i'm sorry sweetie. i always try to look at times like this this way...you have to let the storm pass in order to see the beautiful rainbow. in 10 years from now you won't think about any of these minor things. you'll have wonderful memories of your wedding day and all the days after...your rainbow!

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sooooooooooo nice!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank uuuuuuuuu