it's down to 18 days and I'm soooooooooo aggrivated, frustrated and I just simply feel like I've had enough with all this....i'm crying right now bc I'm not happy anymore i was sooooo happy during this wedding process and i feel like the happiness has been $ucked out of me....I really just want it to be over....between fmil deciding that she has a say in whether there's a kids table at a wedding she didnt open her pockets for and fh adding 2 extra people a week away from the final count(yea u heard me right and then asked y i'm mad)....I can't take this $hit anymore....I'm just sooooooooo drained ....sooooo sorry this is long but i needed to vent bc I feel like I'm going crazy
ETA Thank you sooooooooo much girls because you all got me through a tough night last night and I have to admit I feel soooooo much betterI came home from work and FH told me that he fixed all the final arrangement paperwork, so that I wouldn't have to do it AGAIN because things were changed AGAIN ....FH he knew I snapped yesterday and he knew he had to do something to redeem himself.....and u girls just made me remember that I can't let this crap bother me... thank u again
I can totally sympathize. It's bad enough that you are completely overwhelmed with a million things to do then the FMIL, FH, and everyone else adds to the mix. I'm 2 weeks after you and I am drained! I think we both need a drink or two or three! When and where chicklet!
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Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!! You're almost there!!! ALl this stress is worth it....trust me. You are going to be a beautiful bride....and forget the kids table. None of it matters....that day, the focus is all on you and FH. not the dumb kids. You're going to be a magnificent bride!!!!!!!!
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I can totally sympathize. It's bad enough that you are completely overwhelmed with a million things to do then the FMIL, FH, and everyone else adds to the mix. I'm 2 weeks after you and I am drained! I think we both need a drink or two or three! When and where chicklet!
ur too cute!!!!!!! thats exactly what I need and to think I had too many on Saturday for bachelorette party...u would think that would have been enough to get me through all this $hit ....thanks I needed to laugh
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Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!! You're almost there!!! ALl this stress is worth it....trust me. You are going to be a beautiful bride....and forget the kids table. None of it matters....that day, the focus is all on you and FH. not the dumb kids. You're going to be a magnificent bride!!!!!!!!
omg thank u for that ....its good to hear from a past bride that has felt it firsthand
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It'll be here sooner than you know it!!
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You are down to the wire, soon enough you'll be on your HM. Relax, and enjoy these last weeks.
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DONT WORRY! You are NOT alone, I feel the same exact way---I am now 32 days away and I am freaking out...my wedding plannnig is so not fun, the MIL, the $$, the everything and stressful wrok on top of it all!
Just think u are almost there and then you will be on your honeymoon...thats my saving grace.
Hope that helps
Hang in there, the end is near! Lots of and have a few .
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awwww Jen!!!! I'm sorry!!! I just read this now (which your probably already sleeping lol), otherwise I would've called you before so you can vent!! although what you really need right now is not to vent, but for everyone to STOP adding to your stress!!! especially FMIL since she's not contributing a dime. I'm so sorry this happening to you now......you are so close!!! this will all be worth it come 3/31 when the day you've waited for so long to come is here!!! I will do my very best to help you keep your sanity on your big day, including keeping FMIL away from you!!! I'll even keep her at the kids table if you want me to!! love ya babe!!! hang in there!!!
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Posted by HelenZ
awwww Jen!!!! I'm sorry!!! I just read this now (which your probably already sleeping lol), otherwise I would've called you before so you can vent!! although what you really need right now is not to vent, but for everyone to STOP adding to your stress!!! especially FMIL since she's not contributing a dime. I'm so sorry this happening to you now......you are so close!!! this will all be worth it come 3/31 when the day you've waited for so long to come is here!!! I will do my very best to help you keep your sanity on your big day, including keeping FMIL away from you!!! I'll even keep her at the kids table if you want me to!! love ya babe!!! hang in there!!!
thanks babe....i was sooooooooo close to calling u but i was a crying sobering mess so i decided to try to just go to sleep....
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I'm glad you're better, no worries, I FLIPPED on FH the other night because he asked me how I was making the leftovers, in the oven, or the microwave. I guess I had just had it with people questioning how I was doing things, or what I was doing. It'll be over soon...
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Soooo glad things are better! We're all bound to snap - it's such a crazy time! Just glad to hear you're alright now!
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Jen all I can do is give you lots of hugs. I am in the same boat. Its getting close I feel the crunch on time and I just done have it. :I will make sure the room at the fox hollow is all good and ready for you I promise!! We wont make to much of a mess.
