I wanted to hyphenate, but it'll be too long. A co worker of mine did this, it's definitely cool!
bluesashbride
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my best friend did this...she also did not like her middle name all that much so it worked out well!
ckgmwedding
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I'm doing it!!! I really don't like the hyphen idea. I'm sure everyone will start using my married name eventually but I worked hard to have a great reputation in my school district and don't want to lose that!
WinterBride2005
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I'm doing this too.. I don't have a middle name- plus I am having a hard time giving up my last name- I've had it for 28 years!! LOL Atleast this way, I won't be giving it up completely. FH doesn't mind. I can't hyphenate because my FH's last name has 13 letters!!! My current last name has 8.
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I am keeping my middle name (since family uses it all the time) and my maiden name and adding my FI's name w/o a hyphen. So I can use either or both when I want. I needed to keep my maiden name for professional reasons and didn't want to lose my middle name either.
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Posted by jeanla4c
I am keeping my middle name (since family uses it all the time) and my maiden name and adding my FI's name w/o a hyphen. So I can use either or both when I want. I needed to keep my maiden name for professional reasons and didn't want to lose my middle name either.
Thinking off this. I don't need to keep my maiden name for professional reasons, but I just like it too much to give it up!
Judy&Jesh
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I'm hyphenating!
jimmysgrl
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I'm thinking of doing it. My initials are DCC so my intials would still stay the same except DCF. Its hard because my last name sounds like a man's name but there's just something about my last name that I want to hold onto.
akaMrsT
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I'm not changing my name at all but my mom uses her maiden name as her middle name. In fact, she did that with my dad and with her second husband.
BlondeJD
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I think that's what I'm going to do. Either that or hyphenate. I have to see if my firm can make my email address just my FH's last name rather than hyphenating it. It'd be really annoying for people to have to type: [email protected] vs. just jsmith@work, you know? I'd put my hyphenated name as my signature though.
ladybug78
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My maiden name will turn into my middle name because I don't have a middle name...No hyphen!!!
FTRBRIDE
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Posted by jenniesunshine
I think that's what I'm going to do. Either that or hyphenate. I have to see if my firm can make my email address just my FH's last name rather than hyphenating it. It'd be really annoying for people to have to type: [email protected] vs. just jsmith@work, you know? I'd put my hyphenated name as my signature though.
I have to say, I think it's very funny that your deciding what your name will be based upon your email address!
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I'd love to keep my own or hyphenate as I prefer my last name, but it would sound ridiculous. I would be Mrs. O'Dxxxxxx - O'Hxxxx
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I'm just taking FH's name and losing the maiden name
My sister changed her middle name to her maiden. But my middle name has family ancestry involved so I don't want to lose it.
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My maiden name will turn into my middle name because I don't have a middle name...No hyphen!!!
ditto
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My maiden name will turn into my middle name because I don't have a middle name...No hyphen!!!
me too! I'll use my new middle name initial in my signature. I'm actually really excited to finally have a middle name!
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I'm keeping my maiden name as my middle name. I don't really like my middle name, I never use it, and I want my maiden name to stay with me for when I get my master's degree.
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Posted by jeanla4c
I am keeping my middle name (since family uses it all the time) and my maiden name and adding my FI's name w/o a hyphen. So I can use either or both when I want. I needed to keep my maiden name for professional reasons and didn't want to lose my middle name either.