I took it down. I vented and felt better and now i feel bad for b*tching about it.
julesrbf
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No WAY, if she insisted on doing something and is backing out on it, she's being flaky! That doesn't mean you are ungrateful. She pretty much convinced you to do it her way, and once you changed your mindset, she changed hers? That's really unfair. I like your current plan: Plan what you want, and if she wants to kick in some bucks, good for you/her, if not, you will get what you really want and be happy.
I don't think you're being mean or unkind in any way. I think you're just being frustrated, which I would be, too!
HTH ...
michelle1024
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I would be frustrated too, i totally understand, my fmil acts like this too...it's annoying, not that you don't appreciate the help...
at least you found a great rd place!!!
Lisa909
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uggg I totally understand how you feel!!!
naopleasant
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FMILs make the world go round. Try not to let what she says or does get to you or make you frustrated. It's hard as hell,but I think it's possible.
JamieAnt06202009
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I def would be frustrated too, that's kind of annoying.
MrsCM
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I understand, I love FMIL but she has a way of asserting her opinions sometimes...
good luck! maybe you can book where and what you want and then tell them this is what we want if you want to contribute, that's great.
jennaandguy09
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I totally understand where youre coming from, such a flaky thing to do, FMIL backed out of the RD all together and says oh ill have a bbq the day AFTER the wedding, W T F is the point of that?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Do what makes you happy and dont worry about her!!
