Kinda personal question...HM related

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by krissyB2b

i already have a child from a previous engagement that never made it to the altar.. lol. my ex and i were together for 6 years.. 4 years before we had her. and were engaged for about 2 years before we had her. anyway- i cant 'wait and enjoy just being married first'- i loveeeee my daughter with all my heart- she is my LIFE.. but i would def. encourage you all to wait and enjoy the alone time that my FH and i never get too often- lol. he is the most amazing man i have ever met though to go through this with me and love my daughter as much as he does... ok sorry to ramble.. but anyway- since we already have her (she will be 4 yrs old next month aahh!) we decided we will try right away... why not, right? lol.

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thanks for the advice! and your daughter is adorable!!

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thanks so much!

I AM A HONEYMOON BABY! My parents used to call me their 'little honeymoon' souvenir until I was i the 5th grade and figured out what that meant...LOL

I would like to wait atleast a year before trying. FH and I do not live together and will most likely not do so until a few months before or right after the wedding so I would like to enjoy our time together before having a baby.

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Cntthinkofone

noooooooooooo lol I have a 3 1.2yr old and Im preg with # 2. # 3 wont be made for quite a few years I need to be extra careful since i am super fertile and got preg on the pill 2x.

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dont tell me that!

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my sister got pregnant on the pill, she is due with nephew #3 in october and my FSIL got preg. on the pill 2x

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my sister too

By the time of our wedding we will be living together for 4 years.
By that time, our home will be finished, 4 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms. and lots and lots of living space. we are finacially ready now...but

I am not ready. Its a huge commitment and life changing, body changing experience.

I am selfish and dont want to have that responsiblity of caring for another person right away.

I will be almost 28 when we get married, so i am figuring possibly 2 years later.

Depends how lonely we are in such a big house

I’m going to wait at least three years…probably more like four or five.

At this point in our lives, FH and I aren’t even sure what continent we’ll be living on! We want to let our jobs/careers develop and then decide…along with the fact that we really want to travel lots of places.

When we buy a house we are starting immediatley
That will be in either 1 or 2 years from wedding.

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Posted by ant n tilde

nope we want to wait two years - get a house, travel etc.

we have never lived together before so we want to enjoy our time together

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same here!

My parents have always been soo strict that FH and I have never even been on a vacation alone together!

We want some time to just enjoy married life. HM baby is NOT part of the plan for us

If all goes as planned, we will definitely be trying to have a HM baby! We've been living together for over 4 years so we have had our time to ourselves for a while, lol.

We hope to close on a house very soon and then we'll be having our wedding, then the baby!
It does depend on the house at this point though. We live in a 1br apt and refuse to have a child until we move.

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Posted by ant n tilde

nope we want to wait two years - get a house, travel etc.

we have never lived together before so we want to enjoy our time together

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ditto (though i think we will be moving in together as of august 1!!! )

No. We are probably going to start trying somewhere around the end of '08. I want to teach for the year, so, I'd like to get pregnant during the '08-'09 school year, but not soon enough to have to leave before the year ends.

We also want to get a house, and make a last pilgrimage to our Mecca, Vegas, before baby time!!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

nope we want to wait two years - get a house, travel etc.

we have never lived together before so we want to enjoy our time together

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Ditto for the exact amount of time and the exact same reasons!