? ladies

ladies first!!! thats just my opinion though

And bc i dont like FHs last name so i dont want it next to my name


I am not really sure what is proper

thanks ladies!!!!!!

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Posted by Jennielee15

Don't you put both the last names? I mean you aren't married yet....right?

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I believe you would use both names, unless legally your name has changed at the point when people would be sending the response cards back.
But in reference to your original question, typically the man's name comes first, but anything wedding related the woman's name appears first.