Ladies Enough

I miss seeing Theresa on the boards...come back!! Ladies, I think it is cool that you have her back :)

Theresa speaks her mind and takes the heat for it, but she doesn't hide behind anything - you don't have to like it but IMO you should respect it...and more importantly, no matter what she's ever said she's never judged any one of us. We don't necessarily know her life experiences to know why she says some of those things that offend so many. I look forward to reading her posts every day. No matter what they're about, I know they're honest.

Come back T!!! I love ya girlie!!!

Wacky and Eroxgirl said it best.

Theresa does take a lot of heat for her posts and i think those who dont know her should not judge her.

Can we all just get off the FMIL thing with her. YES she hates (and that is being nice) her FMIL. Do any of you know why??? If you do then i am sure you understand, if you dont, then dont go judging and criticizing. Yes she hates her FMIL, and its something we just all have to accept. Believe me I am sure there is one person in our life we wish that would just disappear. well for her its her FMIL. lets get off that one already.

Theresa is also very honest, she speaks her mind. She says what one may be thinking. Does that make her a bad person? Is it wrong that she will be honest, non two faced, and tell you her true feelings?? OH i get it, some people would rather have someone lie to them, two face and tell you life and the world is just peaches and cream. Well I would rather have someone tell me the truth then lie to me.

She is my friend and she is a nice person. She's sweet, caring, funny, and has a lot to offer on here and in life.

A few of her friends on here have sat back and watched her take the heat on everything where another person could have posted the same exact thing and not get the bashing. That is WRONG.

Let me give a good example. Her post about her FMIL. In that thread, i replied and I wrote 'I know how she feels about hating someone so much, i hate my own grandmother. Yes my mothers mother i wish would step out onto the street and an 18 wheeler take her out. I would go to the cemetary and open a bottle of bacardi and be dancing on her grave celebrating' and let me tell you I had not one bashing reply in the thread. Everyone revolved around Theresa. Why probably because it was Theresa.

So let me end my little post here by saying, she's a good person. If you dont like her, fine we dont have to like everyone, but we do have to be civil. You dont like what she has to say, then there is no need to be rude, just dont reply.

Its like watching a tv show or the news, you dont like what you see, grab the remote and change the chanel. On here you dont like what you are reading, then go back to the boards and read another thread.

Come on girls can we just get off T's back and back to our goal, planning a wedding, brides helping brides, newlyweds helping brides to be, exchanging ideas, offering help and doing what we do best, BE BRIDES!

Normally I do not post on the threads like these because I beleive this website is should be used for wedding related issues and not personal, but I will say that all of these threads about T is getting out of hand.

I do not know T and therefore will not say anything about her personally but from what I read most of the drama that is caused is brought on by herself. I have not seen any thread that starts 'bashing' T when she is asking wedding related questions. The drama starts when she posts something and asks for opinions and doesn't like the answers she recieves. The whole FMIL thread was posed as a question by her. People gave her responses and she didn't like the answers. This happens all the time. Anytime anyone disagrees with T a problem is started.

This is an informational website. If you ask a question your going to get a ton of different kinds of answers and some people may disagree with your thought process. But you know what, I would care less if someone disagreed with me or didn't like what i was doing. I'm not going to start a fight over a message board. That is just laughable.

If anyone is having a personal problem with something and wants only advice from their friends, the post should be sent in forum mail and not for all to see on an open board.

I do hope Theresa comes back because I do enjoy her honesty and her posts do bring life to the boards but the bickering has to stop.

That's all : ) Goodnight all

There has a been a lot of drama around Teresa lately and I really dont understand why.

The girls here know the deal - if what she says bothers someone its their right to ignore it or respond - just as its T's right to post pretty much what she wants.

What I dont understand is why people need to defend either or attack her.

To those who attack her: Nothing you post is going to change her opinions or methods. In fact, its probably just eggs her on. Sometimes people disagree or are going to do/say/think things you dont like. The only people who should post responses are the people who LIKE the drama - and in that case you have no right to be upset with Teresa since you are perpetuating it.

To those who defend her: Im sure you do that out of loyalty and/or friendship and that is admirable - but she is a fully functioning adult who is fully capable of defending herself. She dishes it and Im sure she can take it too.

It seems so silly to have threads that are entirely about bashing Teresa or defending her. Let the arguments brew and die down in the individual thread between the parties that are involved, please!

Ok, off my soapbox.

Hope everyone is having a great weekend!

SonicStef said it best- I cannot believe this has gone on for as long as it has- I cannot believe that we are getting married or are married because this type of behavior belongs in the sandbox.


Move ON!!!!

this is getting out of hand..

Plain and simple she takes a lot of abuse from certain members on here.

Regardless of what the post is, SHE TAKES A LOT OF ABUSE!!! She asks a question and gets attacked.

plain and simple!

sorry for being a B!TCH but its the truth she gets attacked and as her friends on the board and losing a great person like her to post it ticks us off.

Karen I could NOT have said it better myself. Thats EXACTLY how it happens!
I have gotten alot of emails that people agree with me, I never knew HOW MANY people agree! WOW!!

Chrisitna for someone who just started posting. It seems as though you have been on here alot longer

nycchic, I couldn't agree with you more.
How cowardly to hide behind a new screen name...

and thanks chippa, you took the words right out of my mouth this time

jenn how much is really enough?

for me some things are never enough

OK LETS SQUASH IT

The sagga continues