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Ladies help!

Mommy2BeBride Posted:

Ladies help!

Wedding is February 20th.

I plan on sending out the invitations the day after Christmas.

Is an RSVP date of January 20th enough time for both them to send it back and for me to do what I have to do in time? (seating charts, final counts, etccc)
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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yep - she originally had my RSVP date a month before my wedding..

kshea23 Posted:

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hmm. toughie!!

you wanna give yourself as much time as possible to get that seating chart and place cards in order, so maybe if you make it one week earlier, that would help?

Hopefully most of your guest will get the invite, check the calender, and mail them back right away (fingers crossed!!!)
leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by AutumnMrs2011

Wedding is February 20th.

I plan on sending out the invitations the day after Christmas.

Is an RSVP date of January 20th enough time for both them to send it back and for me to do what I have to do in time? (seating charts, final counts, etccc)



yes definitely - i'm having rsvp oct 4 for my nov 4 wedding
adelz Posted:

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That should be fine. My RSVP is 1 month before the wedding. You might have some delays in getting responses back - but you will still have a week or two to track people down if anything. Plus, between them mailing it back, giving them atleast a few weeks is fair.

Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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Posted by kshea23
Hopefully most of your guest will get the invite, check the calender, and mail them back right away (fingers crossed!!!)



well for our engagement party, everyone pretty much responded in like a week or so. there were only a few people I had to track down.
kshea23 Posted:

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Posted by AutumnMrs2011


Posted by kshea23
Hopefully most of your guest will get the invite, check the calender, and mail them back right away (fingers crossed!!!)



well for our engagement party, everyone pretty much responded in like a week or so. there were only a few people I had to track down.



oh thats good, so maybe that will work then!

I have an rsvp date of 3/18 for my 4/29 wedding, cause I know I will be having to make some phone calls
FutureMrsPanuch Posted:

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you can always send them out a few days before, this way they will get them right after christmas and it will give them a few extra days to send it back.

Having the RSVP date one month before is definatly the average time frame.
Im getting Married Posted:

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I think it should be fine. Do most of your guests know you moved the wedding up?

merbride Posted:

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sounds pretty standard, you should be fine

VCanizalez Posted:

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I think sounds good chica

wearefamily608 Posted:

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Now I'm worried. Mine are going out this week with an RSVP date of 2/7 for a 2/27 wedding. I am 90 sure who is will be unable to come making it a little easier

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