Feeling very overwhelmed with this wedding planning process, thank god for you guys but i have no help around me and FH and I havent been on the happiest terms lately. I know every relationship isnt perfect but, im just not happy like I use to be. We dont do anything anymore and i know we have kids but, he changed alot. I think its part of his job stressing him but he doesnt want to do anything no more ...We use to go out all the time, now all he likes to do is sit home and have drinks, i started thinking is our marriage gonna be like this??????? Maybe the stress of planning the wedding is making every lil thing get to me. Plus my family members stressing me out, planning is supposed to be a happy process..Sorry so long, i just needed to vent b/c i dont know what do
stinenandy2010
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Someone once suggested on here a surprise date night....so you each take turns and plan a date, but it had to be a surprise. Your not allowed to talk wedding or work. Fh and I do this and its turned into something we really look forward to all month.
I think that relationships have ebbs and flows. FH and I hardly ever go out - we used to go out alot. Its not a bad thing...
TheFutureMrsPM
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I think planning adds stress for everyone and no one realised how much stress they add to your stress. I know sometimes I take change as bad but, in the end I think it is just scary to change and can def. be for the good.
