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Let me help you put this all in perspective...

Original post by hayleyandsteve

I know you girls probably didn't read the 07 boards... but let me remind back to May of this year.

READ THIS POST.

I think that weddings tend to cause stress, which leads to drama. I just want you all to remember what your wedding and what this forum is all about. It's about marrying the person you love -- and whether you're rich or poor or somewhere in between, it's not important.

there are so many more important things in life than fighting over who can write on which board, which engagement rings are the nicest and most expensive, and who is and isn't classy.

i love giving advice to the 08 girls.. and i think other brides would agree that i've helped them whether it be through posts or FMs .... can't we all just get along?

where's my girl ESPO??? i'm needing the voice of reason!
Toucan311 Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...


Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by Mimacat

I'm not arguing that this site isnt aimed at wedding planning, etc. And if thats all you want to get out of the site, then great! But it is a free forum, we are free to post about whatever we like. No one is forcing anyone to read any of the topics. If someone doesnt want to partake in a conversation, poll, etc, they dont have to! Thats the beauty of this! You can pick and choose what you read based on the topic! If someone wants to post something that might be construed as convroversial - like the ring question, or maybe something that might make other ppl uncomfortable, they have no obligation to read it. Personally, I'm not at all comfortable talking about my sex life on here, and so when I see a topic about that I very rarely even read it, let alone reply. I can post a topic called 'I HATE GINA' and if you love gina, you dont have to read it! Or you can read it, and debate with me! No one is saying at ALL that there arent more important, larger things to worry about. But every conversation on here can't be limited to superficial wedding planning (some of us have all of our vendors booked already!) or serious topics. All of these things are fair game! Reply or don't! Get involved in the debate or don't! Jump in the fire, but expect to get burned! I know I like a little heat every now and then



love the blurb heather!



I liked the end myself!
Mizzdimple Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...

Im confused most of the trouble makers here post the most crazy things..

then other girls rag on them for it...

and then other girls give advice...

and then the trouble makers agree with the comments made against them..

at this point i dont even know what to say.....

does anyone get what im saying?
TakingtheLongWay Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...

Hayley...just wanted to say two things...so glad your DH is ok and because of you I need to have another hair trial! When I looked at your pics, I ♥ your hair!!!!

Toucan311 Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...


Posted by Mizzdimple

Im confused most of the trouble makers here post the most crazy things..

then other girls rag on them for it...

and then other girls give advice...

and then the trouble makers agree with the comments made against them..

at this point i dont even know what to say.....

does anyone get what im saying?



Actually, no, but I really like your spacing out of the questions.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...


Posted by Mizzdimple

Im confused most of the trouble makers here post the most crazy things..

then other girls rag on them for it...

and then other girls give advice...

and then the trouble makers agree with the comments made against them..

at this point i dont even know what to say.....

does anyone get what im saying?



yep !! its like a never ending vicious cycle!
Mizzdimple Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...


Posted by Bride 2 Be


Posted by Mizzdimple

Im confused most of the trouble makers here post the most crazy things..

then other girls rag on them for it...

and then other girls give advice...

and then the trouble makers agree with the comments made against them..

at this point i dont even know what to say.....

does anyone get what im saying?



yep !! its like a never ending vicious cycle!



very stupid
hayleyandsteve Posted:

Re: Let me help you put this all in perspective...


Posted by TakingtheLongWay

Hayley...just wanted to say two things...so glad your DH is ok and because of you I need to have another hair trial! When I looked at your pics, I ? your hair!!!!



thank you!

you should use Mya from Cosmetic Artistry... i absolutely loveeeeeed her!
jgl Posted:

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I totally agree!!!

Im glad i missed whatever went on tonight!!

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