LOOONG vent-FH makes me MAD!!!
Biggest fight....I am soo mad!! Please tell me if I am wrong.
The other day I ordered the invitations. I put our WHOLE names (first, middle and last) and when I told FH he said he didn't want his middle name because people think its spanish when its italian. So I prayed that I was going to be able to change it in the morning. So thank god, I called in the AM and was able to change it. I took off BOTH our middle names. So I am thinking about it all day and its bothering me that I took off my middle name. (mind you, FH and I didn't talk all night until 12pm the next day because I was mad he was making me change it-but because it really meant alot to him to not have his name on there, then I would do it) So then this morning, the lady who originally helped me, called me and asked me if I made those changes (because I didn't talk to her) and the place that is making the invitations was just calling to make sure that everything was ok on the proof. So she called me and I asked if she could make one last change and keep my middle name on there and she did. So tonight FH and I are at dinner having beer and appetizers and having a nice time and I don't know why (maybe I had a buzz already) but I bring up how the lady called me and asked if I had any changes and it mustve been luck because I didn't think I would be able to make anymore changes, and now I am happy because I got to have my middle name on it. WELL, FH throws a fit at dinner telling me that there are 2 people in this relationship and that I shouldve asked him if he wanted his middle name and that he was teased as a kid and that's why he didn't want his middle name on it. So now, its MY fault that his middle name isn't on there and now it looks stupid cause mine is on there. I didn't call him to ask if it was ok if I had my middle name on there because its MY name. And I didn't ask him if he wanted his name on it because he already made a big stink about it the night before with a fight about how he didn't want his middle name on it and I didn't want to have another fight. So then he proceeds to ask for his keys so he can go home and then proceeds to take his beer and pour the whole thing in my BRAND NEW bag....all over my phone, wallet, mail....EVERYTHING. If you are like me, your life is in your bag.....I AM SOOOO MAD! How childish. Then he left me in the restaurant to pay the bill with WET money and he went home. So, AM I WRONG?? I don't know why he got mad and then completely contradicted himself and when I told him that, he still doesn't get it. UGH!!! Sorry for the long vent but I am soooooooooooo mad!! And I came home and my parents are like 'what are you doing home?' and I don't want to tell them what happened because then it just escalates and I don't need to hear them as well. So I am venting here. Thanks girls!
The other day I ordered the invitations. I put our WHOLE names (first, middle and last) and when I told FH he said he didn't want his middle name because people think its spanish when its italian. So I prayed that I was going to be able to change it in the morning. So thank god, I called in the AM and was able to change it. I took off BOTH our middle names. So I am thinking about it all day and its bothering me that I took off my middle name. (mind you, FH and I didn't talk all night until 12pm the next day because I was mad he was making me change it-but because it really meant alot to him to not have his name on there, then I would do it) So then this morning, the lady who originally helped me, called me and asked me if I made those changes (because I didn't talk to her) and the place that is making the invitations was just calling to make sure that everything was ok on the proof. So she called me and I asked if she could make one last change and keep my middle name on there and she did. So tonight FH and I are at dinner having beer and appetizers and having a nice time and I don't know why (maybe I had a buzz already) but I bring up how the lady called me and asked if I had any changes and it mustve been luck because I didn't think I would be able to make anymore changes, and now I am happy because I got to have my middle name on it. WELL, FH throws a fit at dinner telling me that there are 2 people in this relationship and that I shouldve asked him if he wanted his middle name and that he was teased as a kid and that's why he didn't want his middle name on it. So now, its MY fault that his middle name isn't on there and now it looks stupid cause mine is on there. I didn't call him to ask if it was ok if I had my middle name on there because its MY name. And I didn't ask him if he wanted his name on it because he already made a big stink about it the night before with a fight about how he didn't want his middle name on it and I didn't want to have another fight. So then he proceeds to ask for his keys so he can go home and then proceeds to take his beer and pour the whole thing in my BRAND NEW bag....all over my phone, wallet, mail....EVERYTHING. If you are like me, your life is in your bag.....I AM SOOOO MAD! How childish. Then he left me in the restaurant to pay the bill with WET money and he went home. So, AM I WRONG?? I don't know why he got mad and then completely contradicted himself and when I told him that, he still doesn't get it. UGH!!! Sorry for the long vent but I am soooooooooooo mad!! And I came home and my parents are like 'what are you doing home?' and I don't want to tell them what happened because then it just escalates and I don't need to hear them as well. So I am venting here. Thanks girls!
