Lurker/Stalkers?

Some people have posted how they don't post things or take posts down because of lurkers/stalkers.

I'm on here ALL the time LOL! But FH doesn't know what my screen name is (at least i don't think he does) and i'm sure other friends that i've mentioned this site to don't know my screen name unless we're both aware of this site and FM each other etc.

Do FH's and other relatives really 'stalk' or 'lurk' the brides on this site??

And for what reason?? To 'spy' and see what we/you're talking about or any pictures you post?? I just find it so odd LOL! Just curious as to what the situations are that you would label someone as stalking you on this site. I hope it's never done in a mean way are they just curious what you're writing about or do they want the dish on your plans? Why not just ask??

I'm always chatting with my 2011 girls; and if you post that you have posted pics of your dress; invites etc in your album i'll go look; and if i see you've posted other album pictures i might look at them while i'm in the album but that doesn't mean i'm lurking/stalking or does it? LOL!!

I guess i'm wondering what is considered lurking/stalking??

And how do you know?? I go on to LIW on our laptop at home; some times i sign off sometimes i don't. I reallyt doubt FH is gonig behind me and seeing all the comments i posted!

If someone does know your user name and they type it into a google search all of your posts will come up.

But even if they don't know your user name but are on here and see your pic they'll obv. know it's you. It's not that ALL people intentionally stalk but when your researching wedding stuff this website pops up on search engines and people start looking and become addicted to it. I don't have pictures of my dress posted in case anyone does find me on here. I don't care much about anything else but chances are there are at least 3 girls you know who already know about this site.

And remember.. you don't need to be a member of this site to see what girls are posting.