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MAJOR FMIL issues ....

bridezilla2b Posted:

MAJOR FMIL issues ....

sigh .... i can't even talk about it ... but it would be comforting to know that I am not alone ..

I swear, there have been sooo many FAMILY issues on both sides for me an my FH, we are regretting having a wedding.

we should have just gone away ...

I am still considering taking a loss on all deposits at this point ($10,000)

am I alone?
MrsMartiniToBe Posted:

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I'm sorry that you're going through this right now.
MrsHandsome2Be Posted:

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breatheeeeee

MayBride2010 Posted:

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Nope...you are DEFINITELY not alone. I have a ton of issues wth the FILs (and at this point, so does FH)...

My mantra right know is 'what doesnt kill you makes you stronger'

Hang in there!
RackyMo21 Posted:

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Not ALone
i keep repeating to myself...'next year this time will it really matter?'
in your case... '7 months from now.. will this really matter?'
StaceYums81 Posted:

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Theres always bs and drama that surrounds a wedding. Don't worry about - your day will be beautiful no matter what...

Alexandra17 Posted:

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I never thought I would encounter drama with my wedding either. I was warned, I laughed it off..now...ugh..it's like shut up shut up and I want to just elope..well I can't I have to breathe it out, I have to chalk it all up to a memory I will have in 10 years...
JAAMS Posted:

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i'm sorry
Nina1010 Posted:

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so sorry to hear that... I hope it all works out for both of you.
cleokizzy Posted:

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you are definitely NOT alone!

i keep telling this to myself: 'i am ONLY marrying FI and NO ONE ELSE'
stinenandy2010 Posted:

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breathe and take a few deep breaths

trust me you are not alone....the one thing i tell myself is that NO ONE and I mean NO ONE will ruin my day!
july1020 Posted:

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youre not alone....its already stressful that you need to plan the wedding but to deal with FIL is more stressful....just think watever happens at the end its you and your FH who will live together....problems will come along the way but if you have a strong foundation rvrything will be alright.

Spring143 Posted:

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<---------Major FMIL issues. My parents told me that they will loose deposits and send us away after the way she acted at Eparty.
ahhhhhhhhhhh your so not alone.
there should be a blog for fmil hating
cleokizzy Posted:

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Posted by Spring143

<---------Major FMIL issues. My parents told me that they will loose deposits and send us away after the way she acted at Eparty.
ahhhhhhhhhhh your so not alone.
there should be a blog for fmil hating




yeah. we SHOULD have a thread dedicated for FMIL hating!
Diana508 Posted:

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I'm sorry you have to go through this! FMIL is opinionated, but not offensive. I just shrug it off, because in the end I will do what I want. Do what you want and don't lose sight of it for anyone!

Soon2bShea Posted:

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definitely not alone!!! My FMIL is the most miserable person I have ever met and has been nothing but a problem since day 1.

JoanneAndJustin Posted:

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Not alone. SO not alone. My FMIL refuses to give addresses for our Save The Dates...however, she lives in FL... there's no way we'll know where to send invites without these addresses.

I'm pretty sure she won't even come to the wedding. She's being so passive aggressive.. ugh!
deanna225 Posted:

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Posted by cleokizzy


Posted by Spring143

<---------Major FMIL issues. My parents told me that they will loose deposits and send us away after the way she acted at Eparty.
ahhhhhhhhhhh your so not alone.
there should be a blog for fmil hating




yeah. we SHOULD have a thread dedicated for FMIL hating!




i so agree with u two. my fmil is out of control and i hate her. but im marrying her son and not her. after the wedding we r moving very far away from her.
Spring143 Posted:

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Posted by deanna225


Posted by cleokizzy


Posted by Spring143

<---------Major FMIL issues. My parents told me that they will loose deposits and send us away after the way she acted at Eparty.
ahhhhhhhhhhh your so not alone.
there should be a blog for fmil hating




yeah. we SHOULD have a thread dedicated for FMIL hating!




i so agree with u two. my fmil is out of control and i hate her. but im marrying her son and not her. after the wedding we r moving very far away from her.


VERY NICE!!
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