March 8th GTG cancelled

Original post by yelley77

Feb 19, 2008 10:33 AM

Hey girls. I have been thinking long and hard all weekend and I have to cancel the gtg. I don't want to start any drama, or point any fingers... I will NOT call anyone out on here, it's just not my style.

Anyway, this has been brought up quite a few times in the past few weeks, but I never thought I would ever be part of it. When I post on this site, I am fully aware that it is a public forum. I don't post hurtful things about people, I don't complain about my BP, etc. I know that everyone can read this at anytime. I DO, however, have fun with the wonderful people I've met and the handful of actual friends I've made. Whether we start a nonsense thread or joke around with each other I feel safe expressing myself here. That is why I have had gtg's at my house and invited strangers into my home for a good time. i am a very trusting person and this time, it backfired on me.

I received a few FM's recently that insinuate that someone I talk to and opened my home to (a number of times) has things to say about me and felt the need to share those things with other people. To be honest, I really don't care if you like me or not. I never came here to meet friends, I came here to get wedding ideas... the friends I met just happened to be a bonus. So for [b]YOU[b] to waste your time talking smack and being two-faced upsets me. Here is the thing, if I have a real problem, I confront people and try to diffuse the situation and I know that is what makes me a REAL person. Generally speaking, and those that really know me know this is true, if you don't want the truth, don't ask Danielle. Chances are if someone said, 'Oh, Danielle said she didn't like your haircut' you've already heard it from me. I HATE fakeness and I don't want to be part of it. I'd rather you not talk to me than be nice to my face and talk sh*t when I turn around. I just makes me sick to my stomach to know that I am being scruntinzed for things I say on the boards AND in my own home.

It really stinks when something like this happens because it makes you question ALL of your friends... It reminds you that the world isn't as trusting of a place as I sometimes think it is and it also reaffirms the fact that there are miserable people in this world who just can't be happy with their own lives. The level of immaturity that is displayed on here sometimes is just mind-blowing.

Anywho, lesson learned. I need to remove myself a bit and soak this all in. To the person(s) who this is directed at (you know who you are), just remember that Karma is a b*tch.

kBr Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:45 AM

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dajc23 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:46 AM

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Posted by yelley77

Posted by Mimacat

Posted by yelley77

Thank you ladies. I don't want a woe is me thread, trust me. but i do want the person who did this to know that I know and I am extremely disappointed.

Doesn't it make you sick to know they ate your food and drank your liquor?!

yes, and used my potty

Ok so now I know its not me! I didnt use your potty

phewwwww

j/k I think you are one of the nicest people. Even after TWOTY, FH said that you seem like a really fun person to hang out with lol

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:47 AM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Oh Danielle. That succks.

What is with the high school drama club crap going on?

I'm sorry Danielle. It's not worth it to get aggravated. Don't cancel the GTG - just tell that particular person - 'you are uninvited biatch'.

On a better note, I have your cell #, so I can still hang out with you when I want. Hooray for me!

Oh and mima's nakedness is distracting.

I agree! I was going to tell you the same thing about not cancelling!

And I agree about Mima too, I really feel like I am being verrrry bad at work whenever her avatar comes up. Stop posting so much, slunt! (Am I allowed to use that word?????? I feel like a poser.)

Kimbalina Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:49 AM

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That stinks that people can handle being an adult.
Sorry that someone had to ruin the GTG and make you upset.
I love you!

KarinAmanda Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:50 AM

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people SUUCK ... end of story

i hope that you dont let it get you down, immaturity will always exist and its just shiitty when it comes from where we least expect it ...

i LOVE you i hope you dont let this get to you hewa ...

Mici n KC Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:51 AM

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That really su cks! What is up with people? I was really looking forward to meeting people too!

Toucan311 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:53 AM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Oh Danielle. That succks.

What is with the high school drama club crap going on?

I'm sorry Danielle. It's not worth it to get aggravated. Don't cancel the GTG - just tell that particular person - 'you are uninvited biatch'.

On a better note, I have your cell #, so I can still hang out with you when I want. Hooray for me!

Oh and mima's nakedness is distracting.

Thats why I'm here! To distract.

Toucan311 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:55 AM

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Oh Danielle. That succks.

What is with the high school drama club crap going on?

I'm sorry Danielle. It's not worth it to get aggravated. Don't cancel the GTG - just tell that particular person - 'you are uninvited biatch'.

On a better note, I have your cell #, so I can still hang out with you when I want. Hooray for me!

Oh and mima's nakedness is distracting.

I agree! I was going to tell you the same thing about not cancelling!

And I agree about Mima too, I really feel like I am being verrrry bad at work whenever her avatar comes up. Stop posting so much, slunt! (Am I allowed to use that word?????? I feel like a poser.)

LETS BRING BACK THE WORD 'POSER'

mao0426 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:55 AM

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Its one thing to be immature when you can hide behind your computer and not have to face the person you acted like an a$$ to...but its another thing when you actually have met the person and have been treated like a friend...thats just so wrong and people should really re-evaluate their lives...I dont know how people who act like this are going to make it not only in a marirage but also in life

cbcf Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:55 AM

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Danielle I love you!!!!!!!!!!!

You are such a great wonderful person! You know I love ya and think the world of you seriously. You are so sweet, kind, funny and ok now I really sound like a lesbian. But seriously you have always been such a great friend inviting not only me into your home but so many of us on here. And you always have such wonderful things to say to people on here as well.

So whoever it was that was talking smack about danielle- GROW UP and F*ck OFF! And I don't say that often do now I know I got mad all for you Danielle!!!!

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:57 AM

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Posted by Mimacat

Posted by JBoothIn2008

Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Oh Danielle. That succks.

What is with the high school drama club crap going on?

I'm sorry Danielle. It's not worth it to get aggravated. Don't cancel the GTG - just tell that particular person - 'you are uninvited biatch'.

On a better note, I have your cell #, so I can still hang out with you when I want. Hooray for me!

Oh and mima's nakedness is distracting.

I agree! I was going to tell you the same thing about not cancelling!

And I agree about Mima too, I really feel like I am being verrrry bad at work whenever her avatar comes up. Stop posting so much, slunt! (Am I allowed to use that word?????? I feel like a poser.)

LETS BRING BACK THE WORD 'POSER'

I was deciding between 'poser' and 'wannabe' -- poser is definitely better, especially when you say it with a bit of an attitude.

yelley77 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:57 AM

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Posted by mao0426
thats just so wrong and people should really re-evaluate their lives...I dont know how people who act like this are going to make it not only in a marirage but also in life

This is exactly what I was talking to my FH about last night. How in the world are you maintaining a marital relationship when you are so consumed with trash talking?

yelley77 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:57 AM

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

Posted by Mimacat

Posted by JBoothIn2008

Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Oh Danielle. That succks.

What is with the high school drama club crap going on?

I'm sorry Danielle. It's not worth it to get aggravated. Don't cancel the GTG - just tell that particular person - 'you are uninvited biatch'.

On a better note, I have your cell #, so I can still hang out with you when I want. Hooray for me!

Oh and mima's nakedness is distracting.

I agree! I was going to tell you the same thing about not cancelling!

And I agree about Mima too, I really feel like I am being verrrry bad at work whenever her avatar comes up. Stop posting so much, slunt! (Am I allowed to use that word?????? I feel like a poser.)

LETS BRING BACK THE WORD 'POSER'

I was deciding between 'poser' and 'wannabe' -- poser is definitely better, especially when you say it with a bit of an attitude.

I concur

Toucan311 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:57 AM

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Posted by cbcf

Danielle I love you!!!!!!!!!!!

You are such a great wonderful person! You know I love ya and think the world of you seriously. You are so sweet, kind, funny and ok now I really sound like a lesbian. But seriously you have always been such a great friend inviting not only me into your home but so many of us on here. And you always have such wonderful things to say to people on here as well.

So whoever it was that was talking smack about danielle- GROW UP and F*ck OFF! And I don't say that often do now I know I got mad all for you Danielle!!!!

Maybe someone found out that we're the REAL mean girls??

yelley77 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:58 AM

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Posted by Mimacat

Posted by cbcf

Danielle I love you!!!!!!!!!!!

You are such a great wonderful person! You know I love ya and think the world of you seriously. You are so sweet, kind, funny and ok now I really sound like a lesbian. But seriously you have always been such a great friend inviting not only me into your home but so many of us on here. And you always have such wonderful things to say to people on here as well.

So whoever it was that was talking smack about danielle- GROW UP and F*ck OFF! And I don't say that often do now I know I got mad all for you Danielle!!!!

Maybe someone found out that we're the REAL mean girls??

Joey and I totally watched that on Saturday night!

KarinAmanda Posted: Feb 19, 2008 10:59 AM

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Posted by yelley77

Posted by Mimacat

Posted by cbcf

Danielle I love you!!!!!!!!!!!

You are such a great wonderful person! You know I love ya and think the world of you seriously. You are so sweet, kind, funny and ok now I really sound like a lesbian. But seriously you have always been such a great friend inviting not only me into your home but so many of us on here. And you always have such wonderful things to say to people on here as well.

So whoever it was that was talking smack about danielle- GROW UP and F*ck OFF! And I don't say that often do now I know I got mad all for you Danielle!!!!

Maybe someone found out that we're the REAL mean girls??

Joey and I totally watched that on Saturday night!

am i in the BURN BOOK???

TGs Lady 22908 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 11:00 AM

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I'm sorry this happened to you Danielle. People are so friggin shittty sometimes.

mao0426 Posted: Feb 19, 2008 11:01 AM

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Posted by yelley77

Posted by mao0426
thats just so wrong and people should really re-evaluate their lives...I dont know how people who act like this are going to make it not only in a marirage but also in life

This is exactly what I was talking to my FH about last night. How in the world are you maintaining a marital relationship when you are so consumed with trash talking?

Some people just dont change...there is a natural progression in life and some people just refuse to let it happen

P.S. I have now added the word poser into my vocabulary...I have never used it before and will begin as of...right now

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Feb 19, 2008 11:02 AM

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Posted by annoulaksMOH

I don't know you, and I normally don't respond on threads like this one. But for some reason I really do feel compelled to write and say you are one of the nicest people on here (from what I've come to realize from the little that I've been on here), and it's hard for me to believe that anyone would have anything mean or hurtful to say about you. Especially when you've been nice, haven't talked sh*t about others, AND invited total strangers to your home.

It really is a shame and I'm sorry you had to experience that.

Couldn't have said it better. It's sad that a bunch of grown women (we're getting married ladies!!) can be so childish sometimes. We're here for ideas and sharing our joys, issues, etc. Why must ppl feel the need to make drama??

cbcf Posted: Feb 19, 2008 11:02 AM

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Posted by yelley77

Posted by Mimacat

Posted by cbcf

Danielle I love you!!!!!!!!!!!

You are such a great wonderful person! You know I love ya and think the world of you seriously. You are so sweet, kind, funny and ok now I really sound like a lesbian. But seriously you have always been such a great friend inviting not only me into your home but so many of us on here. And you always have such wonderful things to say to people on here as well.

So whoever it was that was talking smack about danielle- GROW UP and F*ck OFF! And I don't say that often do now I know I got mad all for you Danielle!!!!

Maybe someone found out that we're the REAL mean girls??

Joey and I totally watched that on Saturday night!