1. How long after marriage do you plan to have a child (or, if you have children together already, another child)?
2. Also, how has your age influenced your decision?
LegoBride
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I'm 27 and I don't intend to have children until 2 years after the wedding - I want to enjoy being married for a while
dazies1011
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Im 33 and will be 34 when we get married. For my age I'd like to have one right away but, in the real life I'd like to wait 1-2 yrs for financial reasons. But, Im in no rush since I had my son at 20 . Yes I'll have one going to college and the other going to pre-k
MrsH09
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Not for at least 3 years...I'm pretty young..and that will put FH at about 30..he's pretty comfortable with that. He's insistent on having 'our time'.
chicky724
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We will probably wait at least a year... by the time we get married I'll be a month away from 30! If I was younger I'd wait about 2 years.
Kris2782
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I would like to wait maybe at least 2 yrs after but FH will be 30 when we get married and I will be 26 .... he wants to have kids as soon as possible..... so maybe ill give in after 8months to 1 year
alli3131
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FH would like to wait a few years but because of my age we are going to have one pretty soon after. So age definitely is playing a big part.
ellyoxox
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we plan to wait about 2 years before we have a child. i want to have kids before i'm 30, which leaves me some time since i'll be 26 when we get married. but i still want to enjoy married life, just the two of us for a while.
Mrs B to Be
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2 years i think.....my age really doesnt make a difference, but we live in an apartment now, we plan to get a house within a year of getting married, and then financially we'll need to recoup a bit before having a kid....so i'll be 28 when we get married, and hopefully get pregnant around 30ish
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I think it depends on how financially stable we are... the condo is first on our list after gettin hitched... and then we'll TTC...
MaggieLuvsJoe
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I'll be 28 when we get married and I want to start having kids before I'm 30 so we will either start right away or wait about a year...I guess we'll just let it happen
beram63
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my age is basically responsible for the decision, which is right away.
Summertimegal424
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We will both be 25 when we get married We both have agreed to have at least one child before we are 30...so we will see
it depends on both our jobs and where we will be living!
meli722
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we had one when we were both 21, age has an influence on when my next one will come because i dont want to have kids after 30......so my next one will be when im 28-29 , then im done!!
NikkiR515
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I will be 26 when I get married and FH will be 32.... I will probbaly wait a year but not much more... I have always wanted to have kids before 30 and FH def wants one before 35 so the sooner, the better!
lilpiggy742
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Id like to wait at least 1 year after we're married..but i might extend it depending on how long my bachelors will take me...ill only be 24 when we tie the knot so i dont mind waiting a few years
Jessiegrl
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I just turned 26, so I will be 27 when I get married. We want to wait two years before we have kids.
DomesticDeeva
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I would like to have children right away. Age is a major influence as by the time the wedding rolls around, I will be months away from 30...like Marisa Tomei said on My Cousin Vinny, my biological clock is ticking
I also just can't wait to have kids of my own, with FH. Everytime I get near a baby, I want one even more!
By the one year mark we would like to have our first one.
MrsDtoBe09
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I'm 25 now, I'll be 26 when we're married. We want to buy a house within a year or two after being married and then have babies after that. No real rush, but I dont want to wait forever.
