Memorial
FH wants us to remember his family that has passed during our photo montage. In the beginning, he wants to say something like...Let's remember those who cannot be here today..something to that effect.
He'd like to remember his 2 uncles, grandmother and 2 close friends. I've had 2 uncles pass away, but I didn't want to do something so public for them..possibly just add in their pictures with me growing up.
I felt that it draws too much sad attention to the matter and how do you go showing people who've passed to having us smiling as kids? I told him to as FMIL since her brother passed 2 years ago and she's still very upset. I know it can be upsetting to some, but she actually thought it was a great idea.
What do you guys think? Do you think it's appropriate to go from that to our childhood pics?Do you think its too sad to begin in that way?
Me personally, I will not include my family in it like this. I'm just going to put pictures of them with me growing up. My family and people who knew them will just see them and remember them.
He'd like to remember his 2 uncles, grandmother and 2 close friends. I've had 2 uncles pass away, but I didn't want to do something so public for them..possibly just add in their pictures with me growing up.
I felt that it draws too much sad attention to the matter and how do you go showing people who've passed to having us smiling as kids? I told him to as FMIL since her brother passed 2 years ago and she's still very upset. I know it can be upsetting to some, but she actually thought it was a great idea.
What do you guys think? Do you think it's appropriate to go from that to our childhood pics?Do you think its too sad to begin in that way?
Me personally, I will not include my family in it like this. I'm just going to put pictures of them with me growing up. My family and people who knew them will just see them and remember them.
