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Mental Break Down update

Original post by JZNCK

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Thank you so much everyone.. You really helped a lot.. I think I freaked out because we're sitting here, hoping that we have enough in savings to hlep pay bills etc. and I kept thinking about this weddding, and how much it will cost..

but you all helped so much.. We can cut out.. We don't HAVE to go on the honeymoon right away, I don't mind, and neither does FI.. also, the rehearsal dinner we can do with out.. that is $3800 right there.. I just hope we can cancel our honeymoon.

WE need to discuss this with our mothers, because I know if we tell them what is going on they'll help.. OUr mothers REALLY want this wedding as much as we do. and they have helped a lot..

I realy do feel better.. Thanks girls, and I'll keep you updated..

hbradio Thread views: 2,052

Re: Mental Break Down update

I hope everything works out positively for you!!!!

dm24angel Thread views: 2,052

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I hope it works out too..We are all here to support you so feel free to vent anytime!

JZNCK Thread views: 2,052

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Thank you so much!!!

I feel so bad because now FH feels SO BAD!! He's beating himself up over the fact that 'he can't give us our big wedding' WHO CARES!! I have you.. We can have a small wedding, that means just as much.. FI's family is huge, everyone has a huge wedding, but we're not everyone!! Oh goodness.. We need to seek therapy.. I have you all, but he doesn't have anyone.. I'll tell him to come here!!!

cmastro25 Thread views: 2,052

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I'm glad you're trying to work through this. I would hate for you to just nix the wedding and not have your special day. The tough part will be getting out of some contracts, but it's been done before and you can do it. Try to see about cutting down on the flowers alot. You can even try doing candles and silk flowers as your centerpieces. Will save you A LOT.

LadyPrincess Thread views: 2,052

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we will be OK...chin up as they say

I note our weddings
are 1 week of each other

ckgmwedding Thread views: 2,052

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Do you have a Big Lots in NY? I was there with my mom yesterday and they had these really cool floating candle centerpieces for 10 each!!! They looked really expensive. Add colored water and you wouldn't even need flowers. Just a thought....