OK I think I may be havening a pre-wedding mental meltdown. I hate just about everyone I know right now. It's terrible. I'm not in fights with them. I'm holding it all in, but just about everyone has done one thing or more than one thing or another to really pi s s me off! The list of people I hate is getting so long I think I should make it a list of people I still like. That would be much shorter. Anyone else feel this way? I don't know weather to cry or go postal
gaccrrm
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I completely understand where you are coming from. I had a meltdown last week. Just breathe. What I did to get past of all of my bad feelings was just to pull away from everything wedding related and everyone. I feel alot better this week. If you need someone to vent to just FM me.
E-n-K
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YES YES YES!!! Its not everyone for me, but there are a select few that I want to tell to not even come or talk to me about the wedding anymore because everytime they do it is selfish and inconsiderate!!
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omg someone who feels my pain!!! ive been holding it in too and i just let it out to specific people...actually about 5 minutes ago.
maybe you should make the I Like You List...it will help you focus on the people that are helping instead of making you crazy.
Lools
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I TOTALLY hear you!! I've been having meltdown after meltdown! But I decided to just put on a happy face and not let all this stuff get to me. It's hard, but I have to do it for me.. and poor FH. I don't think he can take much more of my meltdowns and I feel bad for dumping on him.
cheer up!
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Oh sweety you are not alone. I am just about fed up with my family, mine and the FH's. all except my mother and my sister who have seen and heard all that is going on so they understand. I am so fed up with everyone whom I invited that I swear if it wasn't for the fact that I already put money down on the place I would call it all off and get married in some remote location.
LB and DC
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Posted by qtdimps23
omg someone who feels my pain!!! ive been holding it in too and i just let it out to specific people...actually about 5 minutes ago.
maybe you should make the I Like You List...it will help you focus on the people that are helping instead of making you crazy.
good idea!! here is my list so far:
me FH my mom ali (BM) melissa (BM) kimmy (BM)
i also have an 'I Don't Hate You - Yet' list:
FMIL FFIL FSIL MOH (sister) other sister (BM)
twinkle164
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I am so fed up with everyone whom I invited that I swear if it wasn't for the fact that I already put money down on the place I would call it all off and get married in some remote location.
OMG I HEAR YOU!!! My Mom told me in the beginning to elope. She said weddings are a stressful mess. I didn't believe her and now it's too late. We would loose a ton of money.
HamptonsBride
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hang in there!!! I was ready to kill many people...hence this sign i created & stuck on my side door...by the week before I was a raging lunatic!! It is normal...just be sure to vent and get it out so you don't go nuts!!!
Trust me you are not alone. Everyone becomes so annoying! Like I said yesterday, I think they hold secret meetings to think of ways to piss you off right before the wedding. Hey, maybe it's all a big game....if you don't have yourself committed and persevere through the nonsense, you get a big golden nugget to pay for everything. Nice thought, right?
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Trust me you are not alone. Everyone becomes so annoying! Like I said yesterday, I think they hold secret meetings to think of ways to piss you off right before the wedding. Hey, maybe it's all a big game....if you don't have yourself committed and persevere through the nonsense, you get a big golden nugget to pay for everything. Nice thought, right?
Yeah, I like that thought. I'll keep my fingers crossed.
znycgirl
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Take a big, deep breath.
I get through it by telling myself to remember that all these people who are giving me trouble think that there is only a few elements that I have to worry about in planning this all. My mother is the biggest culprit. (You should have seen seating chart fun....)
We ALL understand... but remember all these people have NO CLUE....you can't hate people for being clueless.
melisjoe
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Just keep telling yourself this too shall pass!!!!! Although I know it would make me feel better if I could smack a few ppl!!
Just Breathe!!!!!!
Lools
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Posted by HamptonsBride
hang in there!!! I was ready to kill many people...hence this sign i created & stuck on my side door...by the week before I was a raging lunatic!! It is normal...just be sure to vent and get it out so you don't go nuts!!!
I don't have any dogs, but I still need one of those signs!!!
