Milleridge Florist

I will be using the florist (4/28/01) as well for the included centerpieces-- What did your centerpieces look like-- our package only includes 6 roses so we will def upgrade..were you happy with the number of arrangements on the cocktail tables/lobby/bathroom etc... Laura

Thanks and good luck.

Gina We finally went to the florist and I agree there prices seemed high we have 6 roses included in our package and it is only $15 to make it a dozen--not bad right-- well we want a ring of roses and 3 floating candles in the middle-- they want to charge $45-- crazy huh-- so we are going to look around Laura

I'm sure we have all had problems with e-mail. Aside from getting a thought into words, there are many elements missing from an e-mail that a telephone call or personal conversation have, such as, a persons tone of voice, body and facial expressions etc.

Your suggested tip sheet is a great idea. There is no discussion between you and the client, just something for them to think about and use at their own discretion.

So what did you do with the flowers that were included in your package? Part of me does not want to lose that money- I know we aren't going to use them for anything but the centerpieces because of their prices Laura

The Harrison House is very nice. My company has had conferences there. The grounds are breathtaking and the food is excellent! They have a very interesting cocktail hour set-up with different rooms featuring differnet food. Also, since it is a hotel, it makes it sooo convenient for your out of town guests. Anyway, I hope this helps a little!

Good Luck,

Does anyone have any decorating ideas for the Milleridge Cottage other than the centerpieces included in the package? I am getting married in April of 2001 and have NO idea what else to do!!!

Thanks, Lisa

Jamelle

Lisa We are getting married 4/28/01--- what have you done so far? we went to see their florist last week and found them high priced--which I was warned about We want to upgrade the roses that are included and they were really nice and accomodating-- The tulle on the stairs looks really pretty and I have been told that the other arrangements they do (that are included) are enough Laura

I don't know what everyone is doing as far as entertainment but the cottage has a beautiful baby grand(you know that thing they put the seating cards on). I thought it was a shame not to have it played for our cocktail hour. So one of the guys from my band spent an hour playing Christmas songs etc on it. I thought it was a lovely touch and gave the cocktail hour very graceful backround music........Gina

Same 2 crews shooting the group shots and those of rob & I together.

Laura,

The only thing I have done so far is secure the ceremony site and the Milleridge. I was getting overwhelmed by everything and decided to focus on my dress first. So, I haven't done much of anything. I'd like to see the place set up before a wedding to get an idea of what it looks like. I'd like to see the centerpiece upgrades too. Have you signed the contract yet? I am a bit nervous about that. Any thougts on that? What else have you done??

Lisa

As far as our contract goes-- we had them put every little thing in ---meaning the choices ( we had a 2 star and she upgraded us with chateau briand and 2 choices- I made sure she put that in-- I wanted everything in it -- so after they sent the first one -they listened to all my ridiculousness and put it in-- just make sure that you are satisfied and dont feel like you are putting them out We are working with Nadine and she is great Laura

You may want to use something associated with cars, car fresheners (also double as favors), find pictures of different years of the model car you are using, color copy and write or print in bold letters the names, I also think matchbox cars are a cute idea (maybe you can go to a thrift store). If you don't want the car theme to take over the reception, just use simple cards and paste a car from a magazine onto the card. If you want to make a game out of it, pick a movie that the car was in and make the guests guess what table there at. You can put the answer on the back of the card. Good luck.

Hope this helps! Stephanie, Classic Favors and Invitations

Laura,

I guess I feel like I am going to be a pain in the neck. I mean the sheet they gave us promised coat attendent, restroom attendent, fresh floral arrangement in lobby and powder room, bud vases with fresh cut flowers, etc. No of which is on the contract. But I would hate to let it go and there be an issue that day, you know?

Also, did you include the # of bartenders and wait staff?

Lisa - I had them put it all in my contract. Don't feel bad about asking for it - that's what contracts are for! To spell out the terms of your agreement.

Re: cake. You get to customize it. I'm meeting with them late Feb. to finalize my menu and plan the cake.

Good luck!

Thank you! Is that the Occasion cake?

Just know that if you register now, be prepared to go back in 6 month intervals to update b/c inventory changes. I only registered in December and I just received a letter from Fortunoff's regarding the discontinuance of my sheets.....

Good luck - and take it slow. Even with the best plans, expect things to go a little nutty at times & roll with it! ;)

Probably the same. I had them attach the 2 star menu to the contract as an exhibit. The menu says 3 tier wedding cake customized...or something along those lines......

Just know that if you register now, be prepared to go back in 6 month intervals to update b/c inventory changes. I only registered in December and I just received a letter from Fortunoff's regarding the discontinuance of my sheets.....

Good luck - and take it slow. Even with the best plans, expect things to go a little nutty at times & roll with it! ;)

That sounds right - I have the same package for the Carriage House -

How do you ask? Just call them and state that you want everything in that wonderful little folder referenced in the agreement. Even if they just state (see attached for details) on that 'one page' and then staple the pages as exhibits. I know it feels awkward - its such an important day and the fear is we don't want to upset them and ruin the reception - but we ARE paying them and they will do what you want. Just ask....they did it for me and many other brides on this board....good luck!

Mark Kauffman has photography services that you can pick and choose from, so the prices really range depending on what you want/need. That's what I really liked about him...I got to pick and choose to create a package, and I saw the price of EACH thing, so I got to spend more on what was important to me and skimp on the not-so important. ...like, I chose the 3x5 proofs that were cheaper, and I splurged on getting a higher skill level photographer. This way, I still worked within my budget. I just liked having that control in picking my photography...which I didn't find elsewhere. Plus, I got the photojournalist style that I wanted...their specialty for over ten years.

No, I do not know of anyone who has had a problem. Quite the contrary, I've only heard good things. But contracts are contracts and they should list everything that you're paying $XXpp for....which is basically everything listed on the 2* menu sheet + the 'additional amenities'.

Don't be overly concerned. They're a reputable caterer and have a long standing history in the community. You're dealing with good people.

Mark Kauffman has photography services that you can pick and choose from, so the prices really range depending on what you want/need. That's what I really liked about him...I got to pick and choose to create a package, and I saw the price of EACH thing, so I got to spend more on what was important to me and skimp on the not-so important. ...like, I chose the 3x5 proofs that were cheaper, and I splurged on getting a higher skill level photographer. This way, I still worked within my budget. I just liked having that control in picking my photography...which I didn't find elsewhere. Plus, I got the photojournalist style that I wanted...their specialty for over ten years.

I have no idea what my cake will look like - I NEED IDEAS!!!! Please send me any info you can!

Don't be overly concerned. They're a reputable caterer and have a long standing history in the community. You're dealing with good people.

Mark Kauffman has photography services that you can pick and choose from, so the prices really range depending on what you want/need. That's what I really liked about him...I got to pick and choose to create a package, and I saw the price of EACH thing, so I got to spend more on what was important to me and skimp on the not-so important. ...like, I chose the 3x5 proofs that were cheaper, and I splurged on getting a higher skill level photographer. This way, I still worked within my budget. I just liked having that control in picking my photography...which I didn't find elsewhere. Plus, I got the photojournalist style that I wanted...their specialty for over ten years.

I agree with what everyone said-- we had them include every detail that was on ehtose sheets( from flowers in bathroom to attendants) I cringed a bit when someone said they just attached it- only because I don't want any problems-- but I agree that I have NEVER heard a bad word about them and no quite a few people who were married there I did it mostly for my own sense of well being-- so if that is what will make you feel better then you should do it Cake info would def be helpful for me as well We want something similar to a basket weave pattern-- Laura

I would strongly recommend against NOT ordering your dress in the "Right length"!! There are too many possible problems that can occur. My first thought was what if they measure incorrectly or if the manufacturer cuts the dress too short. Will you have enough time to send another one, of course if it is too long they can always shorten it. The next point that I would like to bring out is that the last step in the alterations process before the bustle is the hem, I think that is because that some of the other alterations may effect the way that the hem falls. and my last point is that gaining or loosing even 5 pounds can effect the way that the dress falls and everyone says that during the last month before the wedding you loose weight because of all of the stress, I am still waiting for this one, I only have 24 days left and have not lost a pound from stress in fact I think that I have gained, which will heik the hem up. Good luck in what ever you decide to do but I would give it some serious thought the savings of $75.00-$100.00 may not be worth the hassle, if any of those things go wrong. and to answer Karen's Question. Yes most places do place a cap on alterations and the hem is included in that cap

good luck Jamelle

Laura - just to clarify - no need to cringe on the 'attachment'. I negotiate contracts for a living - exhibits and schedules, when attached to the back of the contract & referenced in the contract text, are considered part of the contract and are binding. With all the text that M has and the little room they have to work in, it was easier for all parties concerned....and still legally binding! : )

I would strongly recommend against NOT ordering your dress in the "Right length"!! There are too many possible problems that can occur. My first thought was what if they measure incorrectly or if the manufacturer cuts the dress too short. Will you have enough time to send another one, of course if it is too long they can always shorten it. The next point that I would like to bring out is that the last step in the alterations process before the bustle is the hem, I think that is because that some of the other alterations may effect the way that the hem falls. and my last point is that gaining or loosing even 5 pounds can effect the way that the dress falls and everyone says that during the last month before the wedding you loose weight because of all of the stress, I am still waiting for this one, I only have 24 days left and have not lost a pound from stress in fact I think that I have gained, which will heik the hem up. Good luck in what ever you decide to do but I would give it some serious thought the savings of $75.00-$100.00 may not be worth the hassle, if any of those things go wrong. and to answer Karen's Question. Yes most places do place a cap on alterations and the hem is included in that cap

good luck Jamelle