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MOH changing outfits?

Original post by Soon2BSumma

My MOH (sister) doesn't like the color I'm having her wear for the wedding, so she told my mom she'd wear the dress for the ceremony pictures and some of the cocktail hour and take it off (and put another dress) on during the reception. and my mom said YES!!! I was thinking about this for the past few days (it wasn't definite till about a week ago) and I feel strongly that I want her to keep the dress on. Just told my mom that and she said 'too late, she already bought another dress?' IT'S MY WEDDING!! I don't know what to do... I really feel like crying!

irishgrl1017 Posted:

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I would talk to your sis about it, and tell her how you feel...

Soon2BSumma Posted:

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Already did... she said 'my mind is made up'. I can't believe this is even a discussion!

jeanyus27 Posted:

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wow you should print this out and show her how many girls are appalled by this!

alymikewedding08 Posted:

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my mind is made up???

I would be so furious!!

I think you definitely have to tell her that pictures will be taken all night long... and you want her to wear the dress all night.
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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are you kidding me? the dress is part of being in a wedding party. when she said 'yes' to be your MOH, that yes included the dress!! i HATED the color my SIL picked when i was her BM...but i would never have objected to wearing it...i even told her i liked it b/c i knew it made her happy.

it's your wedding and you're spending a lot of time and money to make things the way you want them...she can wear a dress she doesn't love for ONE night.

Soon2BSumma Posted:

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Already did. She's a lost cause, but she knows how I feel. Let's hope she makes the right decision. Thanks for backing me up girls!

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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omg im completely shocked! tell her to su ck it up! its a few hours and its your day and its not up to her...im very easy going and seriously dont care about many things but thats one thing id put my foot down for...i mean its one night! ive never heard of a bridesmaid refusing to wear the dress the whole night....thats crazy!

MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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That's absolutely ridiculous.

That said, just offer to bring her 2nd dress - or have someone else offer - and conveniently 'forget' to bring it that day!
ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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Posted by MrsQ-in2007

That's absolutely ridiculous.

That said, just offer to bring her 2nd dress - or have someone else offer - and conveniently 'forget' to bring it that day!


LOLOLOLOLOL GREAT idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jgl Posted:

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sounds ridiculous, but dont get yourself stressed about it... in the grand scheme of things it will be so unimportant. As long as she will be wearing it for pictures and the church, that is really all that matters. I understand you are upset about it, but you are so close to your day, just keep the peace. But i do still think your sister has balls to do this!

bella1028 Posted:

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hope you are not offended by what i say....but that is RIDICULOUS!!! she really needs to deal with it....it is your wedding and she is your sister....i have never heard of any MOH or BM doing this....ugh sorry
Sunset Renee Posted:

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I could totally see my sisters doing this to me.....And I'm sure as you know sisters are....She will need a few days to cool off....She can return the dress or wear it some other time...Tell your Mom how you feel and what you really want and what you are really expecting....Talk to your sister and tell her that you would remember this forever as a fight with your sister...Please be in the Wedding that I have pictured forever?!? I always imagined you in this color....etc.....Try - Even when you feel like there is no point with your sister...Just Try!!! Good Luck!
Gigi08 Posted:

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Wow! I feel for you. What is that going to be the next new trend...

mnd1202 Posted:

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def not too late id tell her exactly what u said its my wedding and u will stay in the dress when its ur wedding ur welcome to change

JTsGal829 Posted:

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WOW ...i've never heard anything like that... she is your sister not just your MOH and she should respect your wishes! i'd be so mad!! so sorry you're dealing with this hun!!!!!!!!!!!
FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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she can return the new dress. I would definitely insist that she suck it up. Who ever heard of the bridal party changing outfits????

megzzie Posted:

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That's so weird! It's your wedding - she should be able to handle wearing a dress that you want her to wear for just one day!

jaep129 Posted:

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Um to late....return it....its your wedding...to bad so sad for her!

Gigi08 Posted:

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I'm not sure if I missed it, but is she already married? I would love to see how she would feel if the tables were turned? She probably wouldn't like it! I never heard of such a thing.

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