Re: MOH changing outfits?
I'm usually pretty easy going and relaxed about things, but I have to say, I'm on your side on this one, and I don't think it's right for her to want to change dresses. Like everyone has said, part of being in the wedding is wearing the dress - whether you like it or not.
For me, the only way I would be understanding about a BM wanting to change a dress is if when it came in, it's sort of not really fitting them cause their size changed or something. So if they were like look I'll wear it for all pics but then I gotta change because it feels so uncomfortable/too tight - that I'd be understanding about.
But just because she doesn't like the color? That's just not a good enough excuse. What color is it anyway?
I know you said you already talked to her - but when you talked, did it come out more angry? Because maybe you need to sit down with her and calmly state why you don't want her to change dresses.
If she still refuses to cooperate, then I say you must get revenge on her - so when she goes to get married (assuming she's not already), you better have your own backup dress!!!
For me, the only way I would be understanding about a BM wanting to change a dress is if when it came in, it's sort of not really fitting them cause their size changed or something. So if they were like look I'll wear it for all pics but then I gotta change because it feels so uncomfortable/too tight - that I'd be understanding about.
But just because she doesn't like the color? That's just not a good enough excuse. What color is it anyway?
I know you said you already talked to her - but when you talked, did it come out more angry? Because maybe you need to sit down with her and calmly state why you don't want her to change dresses.
If she still refuses to cooperate, then I say you must get revenge on her - so when she goes to get married (assuming she's not already), you better have your own backup dress!!!
