MOH drama

Original post by b2b2013

Feb 21, 2012 11:04 PM

My MOH (best friend of 20+ years) and I had a big argument over issues with her loser boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. Normally we have a tiff and are over it in a day, but we literally haven't talked at all.

I'm so sick of being treated like a back burner friend when it comes to her and her bf's (she was the same one who was engaged the same time as me and broke it off). IDK if it's a jealousy thing or if we're just in two different places in our lives, but either way I'm really sad about it.

I think it's time to pick a new MOH

AngieJusty Posted: Feb 23, 2012 10:44 AM

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I think you should give it a little time. Maybe she will come to her senses soon.

It's sad when people grow apart. I haven't spoken to my ex best friend in about three years. We fought because she didn't like the advice I gave her on guys. She turned the whole thing around on me and said that since I have a boyfriend (FH) I didn't know what it's like out there. Then she basically said that I was a bad friend because we weren't spending as much time together. Mind you we both were working full time and had other activities going on. The relationship was not a two way street. I felt like I was the one always contacting her. Whenever we got into tiffs, I had to be the one to apologize. I got so tired of 'kissing her butt' so to speak. I have another best friend now, someone I have known since kindergarten and always supports me.

Good luck Catherine.

JenniBella Posted: Feb 23, 2012 12:12 PM

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Sorry Catherine!

ITs just ridiculous how much these people love us and then act the way they do. I know whats its like except mine decided to step down, and thats my SIL.

Take some time to air it out and time will tell if shes the one to stand next to you. If you decide not to then thats your choice and noone will judge you on that. You need to be happy and you will be.
There are so many things that I wish I could do differently. Take your time on your decsion!

pixietina Posted: Feb 23, 2012 12:25 PM

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Give it time. Your wedding is a long time from now and people can change alot. When its closer to your wedding and your going to have the girls start ordering dresses that is when I would so some clean up.

My MOH years ago was boy crazy and she dropped me for every guy she had. Eventually she found herself in a stable relationship and matured and now we picked up where we left off. Don't give up just yet.