MOH is being difficult!!

It's your wedding- YOU decide how different the MOH looks - if you want everyone in the same gown, tell her she can wear gloves, or have a bigger bouquet-
Don't let her insist on a different gown if it's going to cause a problem -

my MOH wanted the same thing same color different dress. but i did not have a problem with it. whatever she was comforable in and we both agreed it was fine with me. She actually went on her own to some of the stores since i had already picked out the BM dresses and she called me to come wiht her when she had narrowed it down. It worked quite well. If you dont wnat to be dragged around ask her to do that????
also My MOH has a different BOO-K as well.
IMO she should stand out but does not neccersially have to be with the dress.