I am totally sick of this, and I wish I could unask her. I was her MOH, totally supportive and asked if she needed help all the time. I did not get alone with one BM, who she is now best friends with. Since I got engaged, she has not asked me if I needed help with anything. She did not ask to see my ring. And now I haven't spoken to her in 5 months. I left a message in Jan, never called me back and e-mailed her to call me a month later, she did no such thing. But she did call me and left a voice mail on my birthday. She calls my SIL. I don't know what to do and I feel alone sometimes. I do speak to other BM's.
wc0143
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james'pokey
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I think you should Demote her. Explain that you believe that she is obviously going through a very busy time and that you do not want to add to it. Then see how she acts. Good Luck!
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I think you should Demote her. Explain that you believe that she is obviously going through a very busy time and that you do not want to add to it. Then see how she acts. Good Luck!
i agree.... ask her if being your MOH is a burden....if she says no y do u ask that...tell her how u fell... lots of luck!
mrsmeri1104
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I hear ya!!! I have the same situation with 2 of my BM's and believe me after my wedding I plan to have it out with them!!!!! Right now I have too much going on to fight with them.
jennelishal
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I feel that say way about having it out after the wedding. I would love to give a piece of my mind. I also know that my wedding is not as important to her as it is to me and I don't want to expect too much of her, but at least give me something..
jennelishal
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Also, I had asked her if it was too much for her back in Dec. and if she wanted to, she could be a BM instead of MOH, her answer was 'Not even an option for me'!! so i go through the suffering so she is happy!! JEZ!
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try to get in touch with her and tell her how you feel. she should make you miserable and she should be there for you. if she doesn't change her ways after talking to her then choose a new MOH. its my opinion but you should be happy good luck
CaCRmr
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Yea, you should talk to her. Ask her if it's going to be a problem by being the MOH then explain your situation.
zaley
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I think you should Demote her. Explain that you believe that she is obviously going through a very busy time and that you do not want to add to it. Then see how she acts. Good Luck!
