MOH/BM issue

transamgirlie Posted: Jan 25, 2006 11:41 AM

MOH/BM issue

My sister is my MOH, however this is such a situation for me. She lives out of state, and honestly I love her to death but she isn't the easiest person to get along with, nor does she have the time to help plan anything...the best she can do is show up for the wedding. Now one of my BM's is like a sister to me and I know she will break her a$$ to make sure that I am given the world as I would do for her. So I am thinking of having them both be matrons of honor but I worry that my sister will flip out. I just know that in my heart that she deserves to be more than just a BM.

Any ideas? - oh yea and no there is no way I am discussing this with my sister....I want to continue a relationship with her...lol

kellwolfe Posted: Jan 25, 2006 12:59 PM

Re: MOH/BM issue

if you don't want to talk to your sister about it then you know its going to hurt her - so you have to decide .....have the uncomfortable talk with your sister or let you on BH know on the side that you would love to step her up a notch but its just going to cause such an issue - if she is that good a friend she doesnt care about the 'title' she would be doing what ever she was going to do if she was MOH or a BM --