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***~~~MONDAY 12/13/2010 QOTD ~~~***

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

***~~~MONDAY 12/13/2010 QOTD ~~~***

Thanks to FDNYBRIDE for giving me the BOTW title for this week.. I'm hoping I can do a good job....There have been so many great questions asked so excuse me if this question was already asked in previous weeks, but, I don't recall seeing it before.


What's one thing about your FH physically that is different from previous men you dated or something that stands out from your FH that is a change from other men you have dated?

If there isn't anything different that you can think of, do you know if he found something different in you than the usual girls he was interested in?


Before FH, I never dated anyone with light eyes or lighter hair. It just 'wasn't my type' and wasn't drawn towards men with blue eyes. Now, I'm glad that we started talking for obvious reasons not to mention he has some awesome blue eyes. I tell him this all the time because I think it's funny. FH is a great guy and had I been stingy with who I was talking to or opening up to, I would have never found my soulmate.

Positanochick Posted:

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I used to date mostly big bodybuilders and FH is in shape but not a big guy but I'm glad I wasn't so rigid with my 'type' b/c he is awesome : )

Positanochick Posted:

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Oh and congrats on being picked as BOTW!!

Chanwich Posted:

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I used to date smaller skinny guys, but FH is definitely a big muscley boy. I love it
adelz Posted:

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Not sure how to explain this - but FH is probably the 'manliest' looking from anyone I've dated. He just looks like a tough guy and that automatically made me feel so secure next to him.

He thinks I'm really sick in the head for thinking this, but he also has the cutest feet in the whole wide world I call him 'sexy footsies!'

For him, I think the main thing he found in me different from other girls is that I was instantly really independent and already settled with my career and life path. He always tells me he really loves that about me.
leighlo1226 Posted:

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i used to date the typical italian boys...

...FH is jewish with light hair and blue eyes! that came out of no where lol
Lana and Johan Posted:

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What's one thing about your FH physically that is different from previous men you dated or something that stands out from your FH that is a change from other men you have dated?

If there isn't anything different that you can think of, do you know if he found something different in you than the usual girls he was interested in?

I have never dated a Dominican guy before. Nothing against them, just never met one that I clicked with. We met at work and I had no intentions of being with him. I thought he was a ladies man and a player. He flirted a lot with me, but I thought he was just a flirt. Glad I let my guard down long enough to see the truth. Come to think of it, I never dated a bald guy before either...LOL. He's 2 for 2
kshea23 Posted:

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I used to only date men who were taller than me (i'm 5'10). I had a huge complex being with someone shorter than me lol.

FH is my height and I love it!!!
Cataverri Posted:

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Very good question....

I always dated people from my circle of friends,which ******.
With FH it was different I didn't know any of his friends and family. Whcih was amazing because I got to know different people. Also, his personality is amazing.
sujeire Posted:

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I used to date older men and was always against dating someone younger than me. FH is 2 years younger than me. And I big plus, he's not jealous at all. This is a big one for me since I've always dated jerks who wanted to control my life.

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Great answers ladies....

I have a feeling that if I wasn't open to different kinds of guys as I got older, I would have never met my FH....thankfully we did, right?
chreesta Posted:

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FH is much shorter than the guys I usually dated.

I am much taller than the girls he usually dated.



I'm 5'5' and FH is 5'6.5' on a good day
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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i've dated smart guys before, but FH is a brainiac!!! He finished #1 in his dental school class... i'm so jealous of his brains - he's the smartest man i know! and i love it!

Pacie Posted:

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i used to only go for guys with colored eyes.

futurestevens Posted:

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his red hair!

i've only dated guys with dark hair before FH
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Posted by futurestevens

his red hair!

i've only dated guys with dark hair before FH



I think red hair is awesome... You guys look great together too!
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Posted by Pacie

i used to only go for guys with colored eyes.



LOL we're opposites....
fdnybride163 Posted:

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i always said i love guys with dark hair dark eyes, but FH is tall skinny blonde hair blue eyeys.
and since we have been dating for 10 years, my last real boyfriend was in high school
Chelechel1 Posted:

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The fact that my FH doesn't have any tattoos or piercings like any of my EX's.

I can trust him too.
allornil Posted:

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Posted by futurestevens

his red hair!

i've only dated guys with dark hair before FH



well hello..we redheads are awesome!

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