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~* Monday, May 23rd, 2011 QOTD *~

Original post by nilla24

Happy Monday everyone!

And thanks again to Melissa for choosing me as BOTW!

I’m going to start off the week with this one:

When you first met FH, did you both hit it off immediately (like love at first sight) .. or did it take a few dates for you to warm up to one another?

I met FH on a resort in Cabo .. and while I thought he was cute, I really wasn’t a fan in the beginning. I remember thinking he was a jerk, because he came off as slightly arrogant and I always saw him talking to different girls all the time. I joke now that he was “the mayor of the RIU'. But one night he sat down next to my friend and I for dinner, and as we started talking I saw a different side of him. We spent a lot of time together on the resort after that .. but it wasn’t until we went back home and started emailing one another that I really got to know each other. We used to play the “5 question game' almost every day .. and we would take turns asking/answering each other’s questions. Sometimes they were just fun questions and sometimes they got more serious. But I think if it wasn’t for that silly game .. he probably wouldn’t have decided to come visit me in NY .. and we wouldn’t be here today!

He says he fell for me the first time we met, in the hallway outside our rooms lol
gmcamp Posted:

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Posted by pixietina

It wasn't love at first sight when we met in middle school. Right before we were going to hang out to re-meet each other with other middle school friends his best friend showed me a video. It was pretty dark but it was him making jokes and acting silly. I remembered him being really quiet so this video shocked me and it was right there that I knew I wanted to be with him.



Awww that is so cute that you guys met in middle school!!
Alannah22 Posted:

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FH and I were friends before we started dating so we were always talking. I secretly had a crush on him, but had a boyfriend at the time so I never pursued anything. Once we broke up our friends kept pushing us to date. We went on our first date and I have together ever since!

midnight26 Posted:

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FH and I both think it was love at first sight. it was a memorable night, and after we walked away from each other, luckily crossed paths again!

he said he thought as I left that first time i'd be a great wife and how weird he thought it was to think that so soon lol
SeptemberBride2012 Posted:

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Definitely hit it off immediately the first night we met - spent about 3 hours on the phone after we got home from being out in RVC and have been together ever since.
1112bride Posted:

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We clicked instantly, but of course, you can't love someone in a matter of a few hours!

AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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Because we were set up 'online' first...we spoke on the phone for about 2 weeks and really hit it off...he made me laugh, a lot...and I knew I could be myself from the start which was nice...there was no BS, we just had fun together. Was it love at first sight? I don't know...I was in a bad bitter place from my previous break up so we took it really slow, but 5 months later we moved to Boston together so I think we both knew it was something great
courtneydemarco12 Posted:

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There were some flirting going on for about a month or so and then he had asked me out the night before my birthday we defintely liked each other there was an attraction there for sure but we had to keep it quiet because we were co workers and we did not know how the place where we worked and i currently work would feel about us going out .

christinajimmy06 Posted:

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It took a little while for FH and I. I met him the first week at my new job. (In April 2006)
2 things got in the way.

1- I was already in a relationship with someone.
2 - I got into a bad car accident and was MIA from work for a month.

I did roller derby before my car accident and after being back at work for a couple of weeks, I sent out an email inviting some co-workers to one of the bouts. Around this time is also when previous relationship and I had broken up.

FH and his friend Paul came and hung out at the bout.
It was nice to have someone there who was so supportive.

It was now June 2006
We chatted on AIM for a couple of days, then decided to meet for dinner one night. By friday of that week, we had our first movie date and first kiss by Saturday.
FH went to Oklahoma for a conference the Sunday after our kiss. He was away for a week and we spoke every night.

I knew from that week away that we were meant to be together.
And here we are :)
StephanieJoy Posted:

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we hung out at the same place, never spoke to him raelly until he came over to me one night since i looked upset to him, (i was) and ask me if i was ok and if i needed someone to talk to.

after that week we started talking and i envited him and a friend of his to hang out at another karoke night

we started talking and texting all the time and then going out for little walks alone at the bar

it took him a few months to finally ask me to make our realtionship an official bf/gf relationship.

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