I now have a month left until our wedding and I am starting to panic that nothing is going to get done. I know it all will in time but between the wedding and move into our apartment and working full time at one job part time at another its a crazy time!
can anyone relate?
ldequatro
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
Yep! 2 weeks to go here and the panic is not of the things i have to do, but how it's all going to play out and the things I have no control over. Weddings are not for people with control problems!!!!
bridejackson22
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
Yes! We were in a huge limbo for a while and slowly things are starting to finally get done now. We are also in the process of moving into our new apartment, I have been battling a cold the last week, and we both work full time (my job never really ends). So I can totally relate. My advice of what has been working for us make lists of what needs to be done (seperate 1 for apartment, wedding, ect). Make a plan the day before of what you want to tackle the next day. Tonight our plan is to go to Home Depot get somethings for the apartment go over, clean the bathroom, set up the utility shelve. Also pack more items up and bring over to the new apartment. This weekend we plan on getting A LOT accomplished.
Alimm729
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
Panic, anxiety... today is my RSVP date, still waiting for a few, got a lot of nos and waiting to hear back from other people. It's the worst. I don't feel like I procrastinated anything, and yet it feels like there's so much to do now. Deep breaths and heavy drinking. That's how I'm making it through the next month... LOL! (JK about the drinking, who needs that bloat on top of everything else! LOL)
melhunny46
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
Our RSVP date was Sept 20 and we still are missing invites!! I don't get it. It isn't that hard to send it back. People don't realize we cant get seating chart and things done until we know exactly how many people. Also we are way below our minimum and I am so nervous. I mean we paid for 150 and we are at 130. Drives me nuts!
Futuremrskennedy
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
Thankfully our moms have been amazing with the RSVP stuff and have been calling our guests for us. but still mixing like 6 people. we are just about at the number we wanted because I went a little crazy with the b list and invited everyone hah
FH and I only see each other Monday Tuesday Saturday and sunday so we only have four days to get things done. I brought some paper to make some crafts last night but the paper kept getting jammed.
a friend offered to do my escort cards thankfully which is awesome
Futuremrskennedy
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
we are painting our apartment this weekend so that kills any wedding stuff
bridejackson22
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we are painting our apartment this weekend so that kills any wedding stuff
Same! We are going to try to pop over tonight to clean the bathroom that way maybe I can start painting the bathroom Friday night.
JaimeLin
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
This Sunday is my one week mark and I'm freaking out! Like Allison said, I feel like I kept on track but yet there's so much to do. I hung a to do list on a bulletin board in my house and I told FH he had to initial things he will do or I'll initial mine and he'll get stuck with the big items. Yes, I had to break it down like he's in elementary school haha. We have pre cana all day Saturday and Sunday so that tasks away our last weekend before the wedding! I'm stressing over everything!
ldequatro
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month to go and the panic is setting in!
Good luck with the new apartments!! So exciting!! I remember when we moved into ours, I had the place decorated within a week i was so excited haha.. Now we are getting ready to go house hunting after the wedding and I can't wait!!
coffeeisgreen
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As your date twin....yes! I plan to be a wedding ninja and finish a lot of last minute stuff by October 1st lol
