Morbid Monday QOTD

I totally need to preface this one....if I offend or upset anyone, I apologize in advance. I obviously understand if this one goes unanswered by most, but it's something that has been bothering me lately, and I'd like to hear what others think.

So our vows (for those of us who get to have vows) say till death do us part. Unfortunately, it's going to happen one day, and barring a major catastrope, the only time a 'Notebook'-esque end happens is in...well, The Notebook.

So who do you hope goes first, and your rationalization for it?

For me I hope it's FH. It's part selfless, and part selfish. First, he is older, and it's the natural progression of things. Second, selflessly, I want to spare him the pain of losing me. Third, selfishly, I want the opportunity to be able to mourn and grieve...I have closure issues, and I would just want that to be able to find peace.

Of course, I hope this is not for at least 75 years for myself and for all of you.