So I'm having bridesmaid drama. One of my bridesmaids keeps telling FH that my wedding is costing her too much money. She was like 'when I got married your dress was only 89 dollars and my dress is 300 dollars that's not right.' Hello I got what I liked not what you liked. Shes being a B I T C H . Then she has the nerve to tell my sisters that my bridal shower is too much money and she doesn't know if she can be in my wedding. So when the bill came my sisters paid for some of her share. So later she tells FH that they (my sisters) didn't call her to help with my shower and they only talked to her when the bill came. Mean while she went up to them and asked how much she owed. My sisters called her lots of times and she didn't get back until three days later. My MOH (sister) go to work, school and student teaches. So the times just didn't work out. I don't know why she is being such a baby. What should I do? Her dress is almost paid for and the only thing left for her to pay for is the bachorette party . I can't wait to hear her mouth from FH about that. I can't even talk to her because she always turns thing around on me. I'm done . I need a drink.
grkbarbie
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lmao!! did she have a photographer or did the invitation say 'BYOC' bring your own camera'
lemme stop..
***** ur goin thru this. if she complains to fh again tell him to tell her to talk to u about it..
then IF she comes to u and complains give her the option..
IN or OUT (shes def staying,being that shes a jealous BIsh she wouldnt dare drop out and have her husband stay)
or, just dont say anything..let her complain and have her pay her dues
dont let her get to u, she seems like the type who always finds something to complain about
gettinghizitched
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Posted by grkbarbie
lmao!! did she have a photographer or did the invitation say 'BYOC' bring your own camera'
lemme stop..
***** ur goin thru this. if she complains to fh again tell him to tell her to talk to u about it..
then IF she comes to u and complains give her the option..
IN or OUT (shes def staying,being that shes a jealous BIsh she wouldnt dare drop out and have her husband stay)
or, just dont say anything..let her complain and have her pay her dues
dont let her get to u, she seems like the type who always finds something to complain about
yeah she is she likes to start with just about anything and everything
grkbarbie
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is she in ur bp cuz her husband is bff's with fh? that totally *****.. i would ignore her
gettinghizitched
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Posted by grkbarbie
is she in ur bp cuz her husband is bff's with fh? that totally *****.. i would ignore her
Well i thought that we were friends after like 9 years but i guess not.
larsgirl98
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I am sorry you are going thru this. I know how you are feeling. I have had a few issues with brides maids. some saying oh i wasnt asked about this etc. when my moh is on top of things they never answered emails. so my moh went foward with what she had to cause time ws winding down for what she had to do. honestly its to much drama that isnt necessary.
gettinghizitched
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Yeah i know
krisa1129
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This sounds similar to my younger sister. If I were you, I would call her tomorrow, and just say you have been hearing that she is complaining about the amount of money she has had to pay to be in the wedding, and give her the option to bail out. Forget about having an uneven wedding party...I want girls to be in my wedding that WANT to be in my wedding. I would rather not have girls standing up there with you that don't want to be there. Good luck...and just call her and tell her how you feel.
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I hear ya girls, in the beginning I had similiar drama with my BM's, a few of them have done way more than others, I even had one call me and say that $200 was too much to ask for the shower. I nearly hung up on her, then she complained about money another time to me, and I told her straight out, if you want to drop out do so, at this point i dont care! It hurts to know that some of your so called friends for years would worry about money so far. I didnt complain when I was in their bridal parties and never in a million years would I ever have called them up to complain about money. Even if I had to work tons of overtime, beg steal and borrow, I would pay what i had too and never, ever say anything to the bride about it, maybe my fh, but then again, i guess you find out who your true friends are when it comes to wedding stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Soon2beAlberti
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i hear ur frustration but...$300 is deff on the very high spectrum for a bridesmaids dress...I felt bad when my bridal shop quoted $195 so i bargain hunted and got the same dress for $133 elsewhere. plus bridal shower and bachelorette, hair and makeup...i think i'd die. the fact that she even made an attempt to keep up with the demands of being in your bridal party is commendable because i know i couldn't do it.
