Munchkin Bridal party

I have a lot of children in my family so does my FH. I also have two Step-sons 2 be and a one year old daughter(w/FH) She's too young but His side has like four girls and boys that could be in the wedding. That could equal to a party of ten!!!! Also my MOH has a three year old son. I just wanted my goddaughter and my two future step-sons will feelings be hurt?

Maybe the rest can be included in other ways like helping hand out programs or bells, ribbon wands, etc.

We had my Niece & Nephew and his two Nephews. DH had another Nephew and a Niece, but they helped out in other ways as listed above.