Must vent about something that happened at my wedding

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Let's face it, people get drunk and do stupid things. I don't think she did it purposely to upset you. Would you have known what was going on if it wasn't for your bridesmaids? So why let it bother you now? The only person she made an a*s out of was herself...not you.

If the video guy can cut her out...thats great...do it...and the same goes for the pics.

Did you enjoy hanging out with her before? Or did she get on nerves before the wedding and could this possibly be an excuse to not see her again? And how long has she been dating the bestman? Who knows, they may break up in 3 months!

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Let it go. Why get angry about something that's past. She probably feels like an idiot about now, and if she doesn't Oh Well.
You didn't even notice on the day, so why waste your energy on it now. And as for people calling, you're not responsible for other people's behavior.

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If they have been dating for 6 years, I think you have no choice but to let it go or drive a wedge between your FH and his best friend. You FH doesn't deserve to be punished for his friends idiot girlfriend.

Be the bigger person - although it hard - you don't have many options without starting a war.

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I agree with Stef. Don't break up your husband's friendship over this. Just know what kind of person she is and don't serve any alchol when they come over!

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I would be furious, too! I went to one of my BM's weddings last month. One of our guy friends had just broken up with his long time girlfriend who we all loved and brought this trashy little thing that made a complete spectacle of herself! Went from her dates lap to the Best Man's lap and hooking up right next to the dance floor - yuck. I was horrified at the time and more so after the fact when I realized that he and the bimbo of the moment would be at my wedding I take some small comfort in the fact that he most likely will not have a serious girlfriend by then and I can avoid the issue altogether. I literally obsessed about this for days on end.

Unfortunately, what is done is done. You can't make some one behave appropriately and if this is the norm for her, she probably doesn't even realize that she was behaving inappropriately. I think it is probably best if you try to let it go. I would fail in that and would probably tell her that I had to ask the videographer to leave her out of the video becuase she was acting like such a drunken fool. But if you have better control over your attitude than I do, you should let it go

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I agree with the other girls.. just let it go..

If it's any consolation, my friend's gf decided to be as ridiculous as your friend.. she was pulling married men, whom she's never met away from their husbands and proceeded to dance very provacatively.. she also screamed out that she would take her clothes off for the right sum of money.. she was a dirty lil retard.. and luckily two of my bm's spotted it and they put it to an end.. the girl later apologized and proceeded to tell me that that's the way they party in her family lol

Just forget it, she made a total ass of herself and only she and her bf should really feel stoopit!

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I can't blame you for being angry, but there's nothing you can do about it now. I have been to many weddings where someone acts inappropriately and it gets forgotten. Sorry you had to have this happen on your wedding day and that she ruined some of your photos. maybe showing her the video of her in all her glory will help mend her ways

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Coleen she is so not worth the effort of getting worked up over...like Michelle said lock all the liquor cupboards when she is coming over

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I would be very upset too but try to let it go.I would let her see pictures someone may have gotten showing what an jerk she was. Maybe that would tame her drinking.

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She's a fool and there's nothing you can really do about it. I wouldn't get in the way between your husband and his friend. I'm sure the friend knows what a complete a** she made of herself.

You don't have to see this person every weekend, right? If you see her once in awhile, you should be able to tolerate her.

Hopefully, she will wise up and mature.

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I am sorry that this happened to you!! I understand why you would be angry!! I would let it go and say nothing for the sake of your husband and his friend.

Jen

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I agree with jen and all the ladies. its horrible this happened, but for the future relationship of your FH and his friend, let it go. Doesn't mean you have to be best friends with her just tolerate her.

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Definitely let it go - I think most people have someone who acts stupid at their wedding. For example, a girl I've known since college, but hadn't spoken to very often before the big day, came to the wedding with her new boyfriend. Turns out they are SWINGERS and were trying to pick up another couple who are good friends of mine. Talk about craziness! I got back from my HM and the only thing people wanted to know was - who were the swingers?? I didn't even KNOW what they were talking about. Turns out they made some of my other guests uncomfortable and caused an incident at the 'after party'. I haven't spoken to her since. It's not worth my effort. If you have to see her, just let it go - hopefully she's heard by now how ridiculous she was...deep breath and patience when you have to see her!