MY FH

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:20 AM

MY FH

Just got on my last nerve tonight. He had an attitude and I dunno even know why. I was so mad I just sat there and cried.

Ughh...I'm sorry I just had to vent

Autumn08 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:23 AM

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Awww... I wasn't having a good day either! Tomorrow will be better! If we go to sleep.

SAMORY Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:25 AM

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Maybe he's on his period . Cheer up. I thought you went to bed.

Autumn08 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:27 AM

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Nope. Sometimes it stinks working nights. I guess I slept too much during the day.

SAMORY Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:32 AM

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ok ladies my little on is driven me crazy. She's laying on chest while I'm talking with you all. Then she'll get tired of my chest and go and lay on my bed. So I'm about to take her next door to her daddy's apartment, maybe she wants him. Good night and I will speak to you all in a few hours.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:34 AM

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Goodnight Steph!

Hope she sleeps through the night for you!

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:36 AM

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We all have our days I guess...have you fixed it yet? Sometimes I get mad but I can never hold a grudge for more than an hour. Just shut off my phone and relax.

I am sure it will work out but I hope that you are ok right now also!

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:48 AM

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Well I do not speak to him like I use to. A big change came when he moved in with his friends. And well I didnt speak to him all day today and all of a sudden he called me at 2 am and he claimed I was fussing at him and I wasnt...he told me he was tired and I was fussing at him. *** I didnt even talk to him all day

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:49 AM

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Are you ok? I would hate not talking to him all day but then again sometimes I do need my own time.

Hope you are ok.

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:51 AM

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Well, it was 2 AM, maybe you were both just a little cranky and tired and taking it out on each other? Especially because you hadn't talked all day and probably missed each other. It happens. Get a good night's sleep and things will seem better in the morning.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:52 AM

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Posted by DavaDay

Well, it was 2 AM, maybe you were both just a little cranky and tired and taking it out on each other? Especially because you hadn't talked all day and probably missed each other. It happens. Get a good night's sleep and things will seem better in the morning.

You have some great thinking. Its so late I didnt think taht but you must of hit it on the button.

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:53 AM

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Well he worked today and I slept all day because I didnt feel well. He was out with his friends and came in at 2am and called me. And then got nasty with me on the phone. And then fell asleep on the phone.

He doesnt realize that he hurts my feelings with some comments he makes. And then tomorrow he wants to act like everything is ok

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:55 AM

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I hate that...like there is no really going back to a topic sometimes.

I would be frustrated also! I hate not fixing things because then I cant sleep all night.

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:57 AM

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Exactly and now I'm pissed off and I feel like just going to give him his stupid lil ring back tomorrow and tell him not to speak to me anymore.

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 03:58 AM

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He fell asleep on the phone? Oy. My FH did that with me a few times when we were first dating, before I trained him better.

He probably thought he was doing the right thing in trying to stay on the phone with you when he was dead tired, when the right thing would have been to come home a little earlier while he was still fully awake so he could have a nice conversation with his sick woman. Men. They're so clueless. Just chalk it up to that and talk to him about it tomorrow - fighting with him now would probably do no good, since he's so tired and you're not feeling well.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:00 AM

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See that is the worst part of having any type of argument we may do foolish things in the middle of it and say things that we dont mean.

My friend got into a fight when she was engaged and threw her ring out of the car window.... then the searched and found it but not without her getting so upset that the fight was so much less than the love that they had for each other.

They did end up finding it but we use the ring as this weapon against them.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:01 AM

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Just remember how much you love each other and how much you want him in your life.
Tonight is such a small lapse of time in the big picture iof it all

you love each other and hopefully you will reconcile early in the morning.
You probably both need to see each other!

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:01 AM

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Well he's off the phone now he's sleep. Him n his roommates are having a holiday party tomorrow I'm thinking about going to give him his ring and tell him happy new years.

I was so upset and he just seemed like he didnt care.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:03 AM

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Was he drinking...maybe his defense is up because he didnt know how to fix it tonightbecause he was tired and couldnt get to see you in person.

Stay strong I know you love him loook how you said you would like your wedding to be sooner...thats a great feeling!