MY FH

Original post by MillerFord742008

Dec 30, 2006 03:20 AM

Just got on my last nerve tonight. He had an attitude and I dunno even know why. I was so mad I just sat there and cried.

Ughh...I'm sorry I just had to vent

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:09 AM

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I was just thinking the same thing... on the other thread you just said you wished your wedding could come sooner. In relationships, you take the good and the bad, as long as the good is really worth it (and in your case, the way you usually talk about your FH, it seems like it is).

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:11 AM

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Posted by MillerFord742008

No he wasnt drinking. I dunno I'm just upset.

I do love him alot. Ugh... I dunno

Were you upset before he called? Maybe he picked up on that in your voice, and thought you were picking on him, when you weren't. My FH does that sometimes and it drives me nuts - maybe I'm just frustrated with school or something and he'll be like, 'why are you being so crabby to me?' when it's not about him at all, and I just want to hit him over the head with a frying pan like in a cartoon until little birdies go flying around his head.

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:13 AM

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Yes I know u ladies are right...but right now I'm just confused. Everything has changed between us in the past few months. And it's like I do not understand why he's acting like this when Christmas night and the next morning was soooo beautiful for the both of us.

I'll just wait to see how tomorrow goes.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:13 AM

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I wish I knew what to say to make you feel better.

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:15 AM

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Posted by DavaDay

Posted by MillerFord742008

No he wasnt drinking. I dunno I'm just upset.

I do love him alot. Ugh... I dunno

Were you upset before he called? Maybe he picked up on that in your voice, and thought you were picking on him, when you weren't. My FH does that sometimes and it drives me nuts - maybe I'm just frustrated with school or something and he'll be like, 'why are you being so crabby to me?' when it's not about him at all, and I just want to hit him over the head with a frying pan like in a cartoon until little birdies go flying around his head.

Yes I was upset before he called but I had vented about that and when he called I was happy to hear from him but then an attitude came thru in his voice and it escaladed from there.

U are so right I wanted to beat him senseless with a frying pan

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:16 AM

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Damn I wish I had some m & m's

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:21 AM

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MMM.... have you tried the dark chocolate M&Ms? Fantastic. I wish I had some of those, I'd share with you.

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:24 AM

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Nothing like chocolate to turn your mood around! But to be honest, sometimes LIW contributes to the problem. You're having a bad day with your FH, then you come on here and people are all, 'my FH is the cutest!' ; 'No, my FH is the cutest! And we're going to have the most beautiful wedding with 300 people and a cake covered in diamonds!' ... and it gets to the point where you can feel a little lousy about yourself. Not that anyone tries to make anyone feel bad, it's just, sometimes you need to de-stress and take a break from wedding stuff and clear your head a little, you know? I had to do that a month ago - a whole weekend with no wedding web sites, magazines, tv shows, nothing, because I was getting so stressed out (not just about the wedding but about LIFE) and i found that it helped.

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:25 AM

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lol yes!!! emmmm so good. I just ate my last look cookies and cream chocolate bar! UGH!

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:28 AM

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DOes he live far from you? Do you see him on the weekend?

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:28 AM

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Posted by DavaDay

Nothing like chocolate to turn your mood around! But to be honest, sometimes LIW contributes to the problem. You're having a bad day with your FH, then you come on here and people are all, 'my FH is the cutest!' ; 'No, my FH is the cutest! And we're going to have the most beautiful wedding with 300 people and a cake covered in diamonds!' ... and it gets to the point where you can feel a little lousy about yourself. Not that anyone tries to make anyone feel bad, it's just, sometimes you need to de-stress and take a break from wedding stuff and clear your head a little, you know? I had to do that a month ago - a whole weekend with no wedding web sites, magazines, tv shows, nothing, because I was getting so stressed out (not just about the wedding but about LIFE) and i found that it helped.

Yes u are so right. I havent been working and I'm home all day so I tend to sit here all day and post to u gals. Then I do not see him everyday like I have for almost our whole relationship. And it seems like he has a life and I dont. Ur right. I will probably get some real Toni time after the new year and before my birthday!

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:29 AM

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Toni no bags of M&Ms to attack this morning...holy cow did anyone realize the time?

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:29 AM

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Im almost at 700 posts. yeah so close to 1000 I can feel it...getting warmer!

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:30 AM

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

DOes he live far from you? Do you see him on the weekend?

Well yes he lives in Brooklyn and I live in Far Rockaway Queens.

We use to see eachother everyday and now we hardly see eachother. Yes I he tries to see me on Friday and Saturday but sometimes he has something to do. But we do see eachother on Sundays because we go to the same church.

DavaDay Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:30 AM

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4:30 - we are the champs of the 08 board tonight!

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:32 AM

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

Toni no bags of M&Ms to attack this morning...holy cow did anyone realize the time?

I told u I didnt mean to do it! It was a total mistake last night and the night before. Those M &M's were soooo good! lol!

No I didnt realize the time! I'm watching some wacky movie right now so I havent noticed

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:32 AM

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Posted by DavaDay

4:30 - we are the champs of the 08 board tonight!

Lol! Some ladies will be up soon....I am not a morning person I'm a night owl

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:33 AM

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M&Ms are great.

do you know that they were created for soldiers to have during war times so that they had a sweet snack that wouldnt melt?

I heard that from my grandfather but maybe he was telling me a story.

ZeppsGirl Posted: Dec 30, 2006 04:34 AM

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Posted by MillerFord742008

Posted by DavaDay

4:30 - we are the champs of the 08 board tonight!

Lol! Some ladies will be up soon....I am not a morning person I'm a night owl

Yes and Toni and I did this last night also. I am trying to get my post numbers up but it looks like I am beginning to crash and am going to bed soon.

We want to see some photographers in the AM and I am hoping to get up