My FH and I had the perfect relationship until...

julz33 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:05 PM

My FH and I had the perfect relationship until...

we started looking at houses

RedHead Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:07 PM

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aawww sweetie...don't worry

Julestrd Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:07 PM

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and what now you guys don't agree on stuff?

dm24angel Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:07 PM

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I could myself having the same issues!!! We went through that just APT. Hunting...just keep smiling and keep talking through it!!!!!!!!

september2004 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:08 PM

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LOL...FH thinks we are going to live in a palace, I say at the rate we are going, we will be living under a bridge in a cardboard box...

julz33 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:09 PM

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Posted by Julestrd

and what now you guys don't agree on stuff?

Yes and no. He makes up his mind about something, and we talk about it and I agree. Then the next day he changes his mind. Then he changes his mind back, He is being so annoying

RedHead Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:10 PM

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oh you will go throuhg a lot of that...especially when you buy the house!!

Julestrd Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:10 PM

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Sorry maybe you should tell him could you please just pick one and stay with it...please!!!

RedHead Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:11 PM

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we bought a condo and it is a pain but you get through it...it is harder than people think...adjusting to living and making decisions TOGETHER

julz33 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:11 PM

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Posted by Julestrd

Sorry maybe you should tell him could you please just pick one and stay with it...please!!!

Yes I did but then I'm being a b!tch!

Rainmama Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:11 PM

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Typical!!!
I'm sure he's just waiting to find the perfect home for the both of you. You'll both know it when you do stumble upon it! Good luck!

deedee Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:11 PM

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I feel your pain! We are pretty much paid up with the wedding and the house pickins' are slim-anything in our price range is a shack. Especially since DH wants to stay on the North Shore in Suffolk County and he won't have it any other way...or so he thinks

julz33 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:12 PM

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Posted by oct.2004bride

we bought a condo and it is a pain but you get through it...it is harder than people think...adjusting to living and making decisions TOGETHER

It seems like we are making decisions together but then the next day it is a different story! He usually does not act like this.

september2004 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:12 PM

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Posted by oct.2004bride

we bought a condo and it is a pain but you get through it...it is harder than people think...adjusting to living and making decisions TOGETHER

yup, it's all about compromise...

dm24angel Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:13 PM

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Posted by deedee

I feel your pain! We are pretty much paid up with the wedding and the house pickins' are slim-anything in our price range is a shack. Especially since DH wants to stay on the North Shore in Suffolk County and he won't have it any other way...or so he thinks

I understand, my fake little 'how much you can afford test' said $160,000 ...thats the going rate for cars on Long Island these days....

Oct--me and you need to talk condo's! Where did you buy?

And julz...where are you looking??

RedHead Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:16 PM

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Posted by julz33

Posted by oct.2004bride

we bought a condo and it is a pain but you get through it...it is harder than people think...adjusting to living and making decisions TOGETHER

It seems like we are making decisions together but then the next day it is a different story! He usually does not act like this.

mayb because it is a BIG decision...house buying...maybe he just wants to be certain

julz33 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:18 PM

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Posted by september2004

Posted by oct.2004bride

we bought a condo and it is a pain but you get through it...it is harder than people think...adjusting to living and making decisions TOGETHER

yup, it's all about compromise...

I am trying to compromise! Seriously we make a decision on something and the next day it is like a whole different story. He is going back and forth from one extreme to the other. AHHHHHH!!!

julz33 Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:19 PM

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Posted by dm24angel

And julz...where are you looking??

From Kings Park ---> East, but Route 112 is as far east as we want to go. Anywhere from North to South shore. So this is a pretty big area!

RedHead Posted: Mar 20, 2004 10:22 PM

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We bought our condo in Hauppauge...
It was really much harder..than i thought...especially sionce we are soo alike...there are soo many stresses and decisions that it freaks you out sometimes..