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Posted by angl2001
Posted by iwannabmrsD
we worked on it!! and now we're expecting!!
i'll be 11 weeks by the wedding..
CONGRATS!@
You can borrow mine...he's 5!!!
I agree I was actually going to write god willing that we can plan for that. This is a huge fear of mine... I've talked to the doctor about it too and because I've been on the pill for so many years i am freaked out about it! he said come this March we will stop the pill and start the prenatal vitimans and hopefully all goes as planned otherwise I will have to take it as it comes...
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
Posted by bluegreen08
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
I took a seminar on assisted reproduction and adoption and infertility or difficulty getting preg is a very real thing. the book 'waiting for daisy' is an easy read and really gives insight into the experience from the POV of someone who has been through it all.
FH and I want to wait.. we'll only be 24 when we get married and I'll have 1 more year of law school left. I'd like to have 3 years at my new job before we try, but if it's sooner that's ok (as long as it's after the wedding!) I'm scared to wait too long in case we have any problems.... it's a toss up.![]()
Posted by MiciB115
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
It's so true. One of my very best friend's is having trouble conceiving and they were married in 2004.![]()
Posted by AMGBride2008
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
I've broached this subject with FH... basically, you can't go into it thinking like that. It's like living your life wondering everyday if you're going to get hit by a car. I think it's great to plan a pregnancy and I think it's just as great to let 'whatever happen, happen'... but to live in fear that it won't happen isn't fair to YOU. IMO, positive thinking goes a long way![]()
I want one but I don't think we can financially swing it yet but I have some kind of condition where I should start trying right away...so friggin confusing
Posted by Espo22
Posted by MiciB115
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
It's so true. One of my very best friend's is having trouble conceiving and they were married in 2004.![]()
yeah i hope ppl didnt take my post wrong, i was asking in a curious way...the reason why is bc of how much i think about it, and how scared i am about that fact...i am soooo sorry about your best friend but i pray it will happen soon...our pre-cana had a kid but tried to have a second(many years ago) she said she tried for 7 years and talked about how hard that was for her and what she went through.
Also, fh's friends had been trying for a while and we were so excited this year when she said she was pregnant and infact she is having the baby THIS friday, its c-section...so tell your friends to hang in there
Posted by cbcf
Posted by Espo22
serious question to the ladies
i see some of you plan exactly when you want to get pregnant, such as you want to be pregnant by so and so month or for example fall of 08...do any of you wonder about the fact that it can be a long process and not everyone gets pregnant right away? I know ppl who tried for months and many even for a year or 2 or longer and it wasn't happening...i am just asking bc i am curious if ppl are preparing for this possibility...see this is the exact reason why i WON'T plan it...i dont want to disappoint myself, ive seen what others go through and i dont want to sit here and expect to be pregnant by lets say feb 09 for example and it doesnt happen and this goes on for a while...i am honestly really scared about going through this
i agree it took my mom and dad 3 years before they had their first granted fertility drugs did a number on my mom and gave her 7 kids haha and my aunt it took her 6 yrs to have her first and she tried invitro now she has 4 kids
but in all seriousness i am very nervous for this. therefore i am not plannning. i know i want to wait several yrs and enjoy being a newlywed but not planning a time of the year
Posted by Espo22
Yeah see not that ill go into thinking it won't happen but i dont want to set my heart on a specific time and it not happening...i am fine with the fact that maybe it would take me more tries i am going into it knowing to prepare for this possibility. Of course while im trying i wont think 'its not gonna happen' ill hope for the best and then when it doesn't happen just have to move on and keep trying, and theres nothing wrong with trying![]()
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Posted by MiciB115
Posted by Espo22
Yeah see not that ill go into thinking it won't happen but i dont want to set my heart on a specific time and it not happening...i am fine with the fact that maybe it would take me more tries i am going into it knowing to prepare for this possibility. Of course while im trying i wont think 'its not gonna happen' ill hope for the best and then when it doesn't happen just have to move on and keep trying, and theres nothing wrong with trying![]()
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Trying is the best part!![]()
