~~* My First QOTD! 10.19.09 ~~*

Original post by ellie424

Oct 19, 2009 01:58 AM

First of all, I would like to thank Jessie (FutureJOC) for passing her crown over to me!! I am SO excited to be BOTW! I hope I do a great job like she did!!

So here is my first QOTD as BOTW!

These questions are going to bring you back to the early days of your relationship with FH.

* For your first date, did FH ask you out, or did you ask FH out?

* Who initiated your first kiss?

* Who said I love you first?

Feel free to provide details.

For me, FH asked me out on our first date. It wasn't a typical first date, we went to a show to see some bands that he liked play. It was definitely a fun environment and we had a great time.

FH also initiated our first kiss. It was at the show we went to! I left the area where the bands were playing and when I returned FH was waiting for me, then he put his arms around me and kissed me.

FH also said I love you first! He said it about 4 months into our relationship. I knew it was coming for about a week or two before he actually said it. The way I knew was because we would begin to talk about our relationship (long term) and then he would get really nervous and not say it. But then one night we were in the basement of his parent's house talking and then all of a sudden he said I love you! I was so happy and told him I loved him too!

PhyllisNJoe Posted: Oct 21, 2009 09:47 AM

Re: ~~* My First QOTD! 10.19.09 ~~*

* For your first date, did FH ask you out, or did you ask FH out?
We were set up by my Brother inlaw and I guess it was him and my sister who told us we should take a trip to Jersey to go on a double date with them. So I guess my sister and bro inlaw asked us out! lol After that, he asked me for a 2nd date.

* Who initiated your first kiss?
I did! We were at an 80's club in Jersey (on our first date) I had a little bit too much to drink (I was nervous) and I took him outside to get some 'Air'. Practically threw him up against my sisters car and kissed him in the parking lot. Then told him I had been waiting to that since we met!

* Who said I love you first?
He did. It was our first Valentine's Day together. 4 Months into our relationship. We went to a nice hotel with another couple. Had a great dinner, did some dancing and when him and I went up to our room he had set it up (when I thought he went to the bathroom) with candles everywhere and rose petals on the bed, bouquets of flowers, sinatra playing - it was beautiful. After we danced a little bit I sat down to open my gifts and in the middle of it he told me he loved me. I was so nervous I laughed! lol He was like You're laughing???? I just got a little freaked out because I had wanted to tell him I loved him for over a month and was shocked to hear him say it first.

It was nice remember all of this. With all the planning you almost forget about the beginning and when you first fell in love.
Great questions!