my friend got the 'will you be my bridesmaid cookie' *updated w/ a question*
Original post by JAAMS
she said she isn't sure b/c she it's in CT, and she won't be able to get up there by herself if her bf can't go (she doesn't like to drive, she's on LI)
i guess we shall see
ETA: She doesn't know the other BP members, although I said I'm sure someone would get her. She doesn't like to travel alone, so no train or bus.
I asked if she could let me know soonish b/c we're going to be doing dresses, getting bouquets, getting limos in order, and several other things that require us to know the number of people within the next month.
How long should I wait before I ask again? I'm not really sure how to handle this situation
20mrsc10
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Re: my friend got the 'will you be my bridesmaid cookie' *updated w/ a question*
i would maybe give her a week maybe she wants to make sure she can do it 100% too? it actually sounds like shes doing the right thing now, rather than later
JAAMS
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Re: my friend got the 'will you be my bridesmaid cookie' *updated w/ a question*
Posted by 20mrsc10
i would maybe give her a week maybe she wants to make sure she can do it 100% too? it actually sounds like shes doing the right thing now, rather than later
Yah I def agree; I'd rather know now than right before the wedding. I'm not mad, just somewhat surprised I think?
GR2010
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Re: my friend got the 'will you be my bridesmaid cookie' *updated w/ a question*
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Posted by AngnShaun
that stinks...
look on the bright side... at least shes honest and upfront about it....
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Fo reals. She could have said yes and then just been a flake.
I would give her a month. When do you plan on doing dresses?
JAAMS
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Re: my friend got the 'will you be my bridesmaid cookie' *updated w/ a question*
Posted by GinaRandy2010
Posted by Rosalind_75
Posted by AngnShaun
that stinks...
look on the bright side... at least shes honest and upfront about it....
word
Fo reals. She could have said yes and then just been a flake.
I would give her a month. When do you plan on doing dresses?
I already sent out pics to my girls for them to tell me which ones they like; we'll prob start shopping within a month
FallBride2010
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Re: my friend got the 'will you be my bridesmaid cookie' *updated w/ a question*
honestly, I think that is a ridiculous response and I wouldnt even ask her again. She's not a child and can get on a bus if need be. Sorry you have to deal with this, but sounds like you are handling it well!! : )
