Today, at 4:03pm I received an EMAIL from my MOH saying she cannot be my MOH because 'financially' and 'things are just different' and 'I am not around like that' and 'you deserve to be catered to' and 'you shouldnt have a MOH you need to chase' and 'enter some more ******** excuses here' ' and 'but id still love to be a part of your wedding party because I love you'
ARE
YOU
KIDDING
ME
I am SO UPSET! first and foremost, because she EMAILED ME! like we have been friends for 15yrs, you couldnt say this to me! REALLY? and second, because its all BS. I mean that little to you that you can't MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE? this is my WEDDING!
But then again, this is the same girl who didn't show up to my law school graduation because 'I am having a BBQ the night before and you know im not gonna lie and say ill be there if i wont because im def going to drink and dont want to wake up'
yeah, shame on me!
Note: I would like it to be known that this GIRL who I once called my MOH is the FURTHEST from 'financially hurting'. She books vacations like its her frikkin job!!! THOUGHT! if she is my MOH she might have to take one less vacation. HOW SELFISH OF ME!
schnookie56
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wow what a lousy so-called friend. Its obv. better that shes not going to be included, the other girls are right, you only want people around you that want to be there...hang in there
ImgonnabeMrsC
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Oh man, I am so sorry to hear that!! what did you write back?
ImgonnabeMrsC
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never mind, just read above!
that even makes me mad! btw we are DATE TWINS!
if she doesnt have enough balls to call you or talk to you face to face, then screw her. (sorry here comes a rant!)
friends are so hard to come by, especially those who you are friends with for FIFTEEN FREAKIN YEARS! thats a long *** time! You should be like 'how would u feel if I said that to you?!' She is going to feel like such an *** at your wedding. You should just not have her in at all, and when she asks why, just say 'you are the one who said you couldn't afford to be a moh, how are you going to afford to be a bm?'
seriously, the financial part of being in a wedding is no different. moh just plan a little more if I am mistaken, just call me out. UGH that is so messed up I am sorry this had to happen.
I mean you are getting married on the best day ever, and you have almost 11 months (as of tomorrow!) so try and relax and have a drink or two! =D let us know if there are any updates!
ktcafaro
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Posted by ImgonnabeMrsC
never mind, just read above!
that even makes me mad! btw we are DATE TWINS!
if she doesnt have enough balls to call you or talk to you face to face, then screw her. (sorry here comes a rant!)
friends are so hard to come by, especially those who you are friends with for FIFTEEN FREAKIN YEARS! thats a long *** time! You should be like 'how would u feel if I said that to you?!' She is going to feel like such an *** at your wedding. You should just not have her in at all, and when she asks why, just say 'you are the one who said you couldn't afford to be a moh, how are you going to afford to be a bm?'
seriously, the financial part of being in a wedding is no different. moh just plan a little more if I am mistaken, just call me out. UGH that is so messed up I am sorry this had to happen.
I mean you are getting married on the best day ever, and you have almost 11 months (as of tomorrow!) so try and relax and have a drink or two! =D let us know if there are any updates!
HEY DATE TWIN!
It is sad. What hurts the most is that after 15yrs she couldnt even respect me enough to pick up the phone let alone tell me face to face. Truth is, she has always been selfish this way and has let me down A LOT! My last straw should of been when she didn't show to my law school graduation because she had a bbq the day before and didn't want to NOT get wasted. I always gave her the benefit of the doubt and fel tlike i NEEDED her to be a friend. SHAME ON ME!
disgusting. what is even worse, is i cared about her enough to place her above my family in my bridal party. i have sisters and very close cousin, and i still chose her. and in return she emails me with lies and excuses.
UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGH!
you know what, she constantly says 'well i just think weddings are dumb financially...' BLAH BLAH BLAH! hattttttttteeeeeeeerrrr. only cause her bf would NEVER give her a wedding.
ktcafaro
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LADIES, I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE SUPPORT!
feeling real lost! 11 months to go!
ktcafaro
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UPDATE!
So I responded just saying 'received your email. thanks for advance notice...' blah blah and I said 'enjoy your birthday weekend'
her response :'thanks suggaaa'
spdy540
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I'm sorry to hear that and by email that's really sad. I hope all works out
