my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

my husband packed a bag and left.... he blames me for this being over. He still thinks its me trying to change him. He said this was the person he was when I married him and that even before i met him, he was worse.
He trys to say that i want a man who is attached at the hip all the time! What is he talking about? i hate him right now.
im not trying to change him, i just want him to realize drinking an dgetting wasted and staying out till 6 am is NOT cool at 31 years old and especially if you're married!

All this and school starts tomorrow!!!!!!

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

OMG! Hang in there!!!!!

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

AW Kristi, I am sooooo sorry. Maybe when he gets a way for a couple of days, he will come to realize what he is doing. I can only imagine how you are hurting, but sometimes 'Tough Love' is the best love. Throw yourself into your kids this year. Let them be the joy that you need right now.

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

I am sorry he is blaming you, but I think you already know it is not your fault.....don't let him pin this on you & try to drag you down.

Stay strong!!!!

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

OMG! I am so sorry for you!

You may not want to hear this right now, but something very similar happened to my cousin. She was able to get an annulment and basically start over.

She is now happily remarried and is expecting

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Stay strong and good luck!! He obviously can't see what he is going to miss out on and it's clearly HIS loss!!!

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I'm sorry you're going through this. He'll find out to late what he's missing out....on a nice caring woman.

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

I'm so sorry! But it's good that you found this out before there were any children in the picture. It's not you. He's obviously a child.

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i am so sorry you have to go through this

stay strong

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you poor thing!!!

hopefully he can take responsibility for his behavior soon....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

I'm so sorry, but maybe it's for the best that he's left....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

I'm so sorry Kristi! I happen to agree with you that it's time for that behavior to stop at 31

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

Re: my short marriage is over..update he left!!!!....

sending you many more hugs today