Let me preface by saying that my MOH is FH's sister and she's 20 and in college....my Jr. MOH is my cousin and she's 13...one BM is in Manhattan, 2 are 6 hrs away, one is in Boston, one is 5 hrs away and another is 24 hours away....
with all of that said....I emailed them all today to see if any wanted to get their makeup done so I can give my vendor the details. I also said in the email that I think a shower/bachelorette party are no-go's since everyone is spread out.
Well, I'm sort of sad/hurt/annoyed....none of them ever thought to organize or attempt to organize a shower...I got a few emails regarding not having a bachelorette party so maybe that will happen...
our wedding is really small. If we had a shower, it would suck. My family is upstate, FHs is here, and then friends/family ALL over the US...same w/ bachelorette...
I just feel like I can't have the normal bridal stuff due to the distance thing...I know I said it was a no-go but it makes me sad that it won't happen....
Okay, vent over....
november152008
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have a bridal shower upstate with your family there....have a bridal shower with your friends here in ny....
it does not matter if it is 10 people it is a get together and it is for you....
you should reconsider and tell your aunts to give it to you...keep it simple but you should have it
Toucan311
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You definitely shouldn't have to organize your own bridal shower. If one does not surface by 1/1, we're totally having one for you.
CNC4eva3402
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I would def. mention that you do want one...they may really feel that you don't...
Or..they could be as happy as a pig in sh*t right now if they think they have you fooled into thinking you aren't going to have one...
Either way..you deserve one..and I'm in if we're doing this. I make a mean pillsbury cake!!! hehe
futuremrsmultari
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i will TOTALLY throw a shower for you. swans, tulle, bows and all.
