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Re: Vent (2 Issues)

Because it is through a text it is hard to tell whether or not she was giving an attitude. Sometimes I think I misread text messages and think someone is mad when they aren't, or even the other way around when you can't tell they are mad. If she's being bitchy just ignore her! It doesn't sound like she lives close by anyway so you probably won't have to deal with her very often.

I think it is a good idea to contact your aunt to let her know that you expect an apology, honestly that is what i would do if it were me, but maybe try to say it in a nice way. and if possible, in a way that doesn't get you caught up in the middle of their fight. You have a wedding to plan, you don't need to get involved with more drama!

Vent (2 Issues)

Yeah you're right - I think sometimes it's easy to get bogged down by all the details. thanks for the advice!

Vent (2 Issues)

I would just breathe and not worry about either problem. The right is btwn your mom and aunt and by you emailing, I doubt it's going to go well. If anyone, your dad should intervene.
Focus on your wedding and shut the others out, trust me I wish I had with certain ppl.

Vent (2 Issues)

*Crashing*

I wouldn't worry about FHs friend. You have less than 6 months until your wedding, she knows when it is. Just let her figure it out, as I'm assuming she is an adult.

When it comes to your mom and your aunt, as much as I understand your reasoning for wanting to get involved, my advice is to stay out of it. If your mom has tried to get an apology from your aunt, and she hasn't given her one, I don't think you asking her to will make her choose to give an apology. Is your mother asking you to not invite your aunt? I think not inviting your aunt, or asking her to insincerely apologize to your mom just to score an invite, you're going to cause more problems than you're going to solve.

I agree with Kristin31613. Just focus on your wedding and shut others out!